[Vent] Reddit is not very friendly to me or to disabled people, it feels
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
You sure said it. Society in general isn’t too friendly to disabled individuals
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
Yeah, Reddit is a shithole.
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
You know how there is this trope of people with little power in their lives abusing service industry workers? I feel like the behavior you describe is kind of like that. People go online and be way ruder than they would be irl, because they can. They can’t empathize with the person on the other side, or they don’t care and are happy to have an outlet without consequences.
I mostly assume replies are not actually to me, they are just people who want to hear themselves talk. Makes it a bit less frustrating.
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
Reddit sucks, but also who cares what some bridge troll who lives in a van down by the river thinks?
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
I get it, by the way. Redshitters, as you said you called them, flamed me for asking how I know if I’m a lesbian or not and they called it a dumb question and removed my post and everyone downvoted it.
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
Yeah reddit is a cesspool. I had gotten death threats on there for having a profile pic that looked vaguely furry. The guy who made the death threats got a slap on the wrist.
Meanwhile my account caught a 3 day ban for joking about mosquitoes getting cancer, and then a perm ban for saying that Nazis are losers. Reddit is a fascist supporting platform and the sooner it goes down in flames, the better.
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Reddit sucks, but also who cares what some bridge troll who lives in a van down by the river thinks?
Is the van near the bridge or do they commute to work?
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
Except maybe one or 2 communities that I know of it’s all pretty agressive on reddit really. As soon as you write something that looks like it might get downvotes everyone jumps on the mean wagon to internet points.
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
Smaller communities can afford to be more inclusive as there is more space for attention and one to one engagement. Larger communities don’t have the attention span etc.
Rambly and hard to comprehend posts and writing styles do worse and you must distrust any one poster much more as trolling, fetish larping etc. Is so very common.
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
I feel like a lot of the unkindness and meanness is manufactured on purpose to divide us, I don’t think real people are actually that way all the time like they are on reddit, genuine kindness is rare, it wasn’t always like that at all, Reddit used to be exactly like here.
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Is the van near the bridge or do they commute to work?
The van is under the bridge that goes over the river.
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I get it, by the way. Redshitters, as you said you called them, flamed me for asking how I know if I’m a lesbian or not and they called it a dumb question and removed my post and everyone downvoted it.
for asking how I know if I’m a lesbian or not and they called it a dumb question
1: Are you a girl?
2: Do you get horny for girls?
If the answer to both of those questions is yes, then congrats: you’re a lesbian. (Or maybe bi or pan or whatever.)
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
I left reddit after the reddit blackout happened. Permanently. I didn’t purge my old posts but… I’m gone and not returning until the blind community forgives them. (API changes, lots of non seeing moderators lost their ability to interact with the site. There was a blackout in protest and reddit used it for routine maintenance)
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for asking how I know if I’m a lesbian or not and they called it a dumb question
1: Are you a girl?
2: Do you get horny for girls?
If the answer to both of those questions is yes, then congrats: you’re a lesbian. (Or maybe bi or pan or whatever.)
Yes to both hehe!!!
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I get it, by the way. Redshitters, as you said you called them, flamed me for asking how I know if I’m a lesbian or not and they called it a dumb question and removed my post and everyone downvoted it.
That’s the worst part about reddit, and alot of other online forums. People get so mean and toxic, and forget there’s real people behind these usernames too :c It looks like this website is a bit better for that, but only time will tell. I hope you got your answers on your question, and that people treat you with a little bit more respect in the future.
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That’s the worst part about reddit, and alot of other online forums. People get so mean and toxic, and forget there’s real people behind these usernames too :c It looks like this website is a bit better for that, but only time will tell. I hope you got your answers on your question, and that people treat you with a little bit more respect in the future.
No, I didn’t get an answer but I figured out I am most likely lesbian as I don’t wanna date men
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The van is under the bridge that goes over the river.
the van is in the river
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No, I didn’t get an answer but I figured out I am most likely lesbian as I don’t wanna date men
That makes sense. Also remember you never have to put yourself in any “box”, just because people find it “more convenient”. If your feelings change from person to person, or from day to day, then that’s more than okay. No 2 people should live their lives completely the same way. You evolve, and learn to enjoy new things in the future. Don’t stress it as much, just do what feels right for you!
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I hate to post about Reddit on a non-Reddit platform, but come on! Reddit is super overrated, like they delete and downvote every post and comment I make whereas no one does that here. One time, they told my friend who happens to be autistic, LGBT, and a fictionkin that she “might as well just kill herself”, though that got removed, thankfully, and they call me stupid and delete my post and talk about what a stupid question it is that no one can answer when I, who is autistic, ask a question on why someone acts a certain way or why society has to be a certain way. I’M AUTISTIC. I DON’T GET QUESTIONS THAT COME NATURALLY TO EVERYONE ELSE AND I ASK QUESTIONS THAT NO ONE THINKS OF. MY BRAIN WORKS DIFFERENTLY, MR. REDDITOR!!!
I’ve certainly had negative interactions on Lemmy and elsewhere.
With reddit… I’m not blaming you, but communities are how they are. Different subreddits are different.
If you’re posting in /r/autism and experiencing that, then I’d perhaps suspect the issue might be more on your end - how you’re presenting yourself. That said, there are a lot of toxic places on reddit, for sure.
I’m essentially no longer on reddit, but I was there since 2009. I still say things that get downvotes. Mostly silly jokes that whoosh over peoples’ heads, but sometimes just randomly. It might be my fault some of the time, but it’s definitely just the way it goes. Sometimes I make a comment and expect downvotes but get upvotes; and sometimes expect upvotes and get downvotes.
Also, “reddit” doesn’t tell anyone anything. Users on the site certainly do. They’re individuals deciding what to say, just like here - I am not Lemmy telling you any of this, I’m me. And if I was on reddit talking to you, I’d still be me.
That said, before I almost-completely withdrew from participating in reddit, I browsed /r/all on old.reddit using RES to filter out so so very many toxic subs (and subs I wasn’t interested in).
There’s plenty of neurospicy people on reddit (I was / limited-still-am one).
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