Wandering Adventure Party

Oh yeah of course there was more to it but funny enough it was the final straw for me

I would say it was more the act of deliberately doing something I didn’t approve of, it wasn’t the only thing like this she did but yeah when her body was more tattoo skin than actual skin she simply was not attractive to me anymore

Spent like 20 grand on tattoos while I saved for our down payment

Left my wife because she wouldn’t stop getting tattoos lol

I got divorced like 5 months ago after a 9 years with this girl who cheated on me, emotionally abused me, etc etc

I’ve been suicidal since the split, getting worse by the day still, and literally nobody ever asked if I was OK, aside from my mom. Even when I begged close friends for support they basically just ghosted me. My ex is surrounded by support, from the same people who I thought were my best friends.

Do I just have shitty people around me or is this just what guys deal with? The attitude towards me is just “get over it”. I’ve lost almost everyone I’m close to because of this and I’m starting to think there might actually be one viable option of getting over it because existing is simply torture. All of 2025 felt like just a bad dream but it’s unfortunately real.

Edit: Yes I have a counselor - a very good one I see weekly.