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  • David NjokuD This user is from outside of this forum
    David NjokuD This user is from outside of this forum
    David Njoku
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    When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

    Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

    The Tattooed Nonna 👑T cuan_knaggsM Ben Thompson 🐕J DamonHDD Albert CardonaA 11 Replies Last reply
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    • David NjokuD David Njoku

      When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

      Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

      The Tattooed Nonna 👑T This user is from outside of this forum
      The Tattooed Nonna 👑T This user is from outside of this forum
      The Tattooed Nonna 👑
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      @davidnjoku also at fault. Mailing lists on the company directory of email

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      • David NjokuD David Njoku

        When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

        Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

        cuan_knaggsM This user is from outside of this forum
        cuan_knaggsM This user is from outside of this forum
        cuan_knaggs
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        @davidnjoku can be all of the about but often it's about insecurity and not feeling actual ownership of the issue. and the other one is to cast the widest net to be sure it's a "not my fault" problem

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        • David NjokuD David Njoku

          When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

          Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

          Ben Thompson 🐕J This user is from outside of this forum
          Ben Thompson 🐕J This user is from outside of this forum
          Ben Thompson 🐕
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          @davidnjoku all of those plus fear. Fear of getting it in the neck for not having invited someone who will complain...

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          • David NjokuD David Njoku

            When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

            Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

            DamonHDD This user is from outside of this forum
            DamonHDD This user is from outside of this forum
            DamonHD
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            @davidnjoku Making up for lack of friends and other social interactions! Only half joking...

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            • David NjokuD David Njoku

              When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

              Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

              Albert CardonaA This user is from outside of this forum
              Albert CardonaA This user is from outside of this forum
              Albert Cardona
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              @davidnjoku How many have received any training in good management practices? Much less actual, proper training?

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              • Albert CardonaA Albert Cardona

                @davidnjoku How many have received any training in good management practices? Much less actual, proper training?

                David NjokuD This user is from outside of this forum
                David NjokuD This user is from outside of this forum
                David Njoku
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                @albertcardona I think you're on to something. In professions where people are promoted into management from jobs with more concrete outcomes (lines of code for developers or tables for carpenters) people tend to receive no training on how to be a manager and they have to work it out for themselves. Lord knows it took me years to figure it out, so maybe I should have some empathy for those a little behind me.

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                • David NjokuD David Njoku

                  When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

                  Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

                  GinevraCatG This user is from outside of this forum
                  GinevraCatG This user is from outside of this forum
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                  @davidnjoku @purplepadma Sometimes it's literally a "cover your ass" move. By inviting everyone and their dog, you don't piss anyone off by giving them FOMO, *and* you dilute responsibility for any decisions that are taken. You remove the responsibility of following up with clear communication to anyone affected but not present, because you *invited* them.

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                  • David NjokuD David Njoku

                    @albertcardona I think you're on to something. In professions where people are promoted into management from jobs with more concrete outcomes (lines of code for developers or tables for carpenters) people tend to receive no training on how to be a manager and they have to work it out for themselves. Lord knows it took me years to figure it out, so maybe I should have some empathy for those a little behind me.

                    Albert CardonaA This user is from outside of this forum
                    Albert CardonaA This user is from outside of this forum
                    Albert Cardona
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                    @davidnjoku

                    Same in academia: from graduate student (largely working solo) to postdoctoral researcher (solo or directing sometimes one technician) to faculty member (recruiting and directing an entire research group. Amount of explicit or implicit training received: largely zero.

                    #academia

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                    • David NjokuD David Njoku

                      When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

                      Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

                      Frank’s TingF This user is from outside of this forum
                      Frank’s TingF This user is from outside of this forum
                      Frank’s Ting
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                      @davidnjoku i always tried to keep them small, but discovered in large corporates that the easiest way to make progress was to ensure everyone was invited early on and then allow people to self-exclude or selectively attend afterwards. A good set of meeting minutes and an agenda helps.

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                      • David NjokuD David Njoku

                        When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

                        Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

                        Kevin P. FlemingK This user is from outside of this forum
                        Kevin P. FlemingK This user is from outside of this forum
                        Kevin P. Fleming
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                        @davidnjoku Honestly corporate calendaring systems should show the organizer a 'projected cost' of the time for all the people they are inviting.

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                        • Albert CardonaA Albert Cardona

                          @davidnjoku

                          Same in academia: from graduate student (largely working solo) to postdoctoral researcher (solo or directing sometimes one technician) to faculty member (recruiting and directing an entire research group. Amount of explicit or implicit training received: largely zero.

                          #academia

                          Véronique VitryV This user is from outside of this forum
                          Véronique VitryV This user is from outside of this forum
                          Véronique Vitry
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                          @albertcardona @davidnjoku

                          I got some management training as an academic. That I paid for myself (with my lab's money).
                          Now, things are slowly changing, and they noticed that training people actually helps the university save money so they are offering some basics.

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                          • David NjokuD David Njoku

                            When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

                            Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

                            Alpine TocsinsN This user is from outside of this forum
                            Alpine TocsinsN This user is from outside of this forum
                            Alpine Tocsins
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                            @davidnjoku @stufromoz it depends on the org; current client, there are many with the power to object but nobody wants to be the one to say “yes”. The only way to avoid future objections (“well I wasn’t in that meeting so I have to delay a week to research it”) that could derail a timeline is to get everyone in the same meeting and clearly give them that time to dissent: a real “speak now or forever hold your peace” thing. It’s not perfect but it solves for a lack of leadership and direction by providing it de facto in a situation where I don’t have role power.

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                            • David NjokuD David Njoku

                              When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

                              Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

                              Max LeibmanM This user is from outside of this forum
                              Max LeibmanM This user is from outside of this forum
                              Max Leibman
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                              @davidnjoku I think it can be any of those or a combination, plus several more: no education on how to run a good meeting, a desire to CYA, a different lack of perspective (not thinking about how expensive an hour of all of those people’s salaries will be), etc.

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                              • Max LeibmanM Max Leibman

                                @davidnjoku I think it can be any of those or a combination, plus several more: no education on how to run a good meeting, a desire to CYA, a different lack of perspective (not thinking about how expensive an hour of all of those people’s salaries will be), etc.

                                David NjokuD This user is from outside of this forum
                                David NjokuD This user is from outside of this forum
                                David Njoku
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                                @maxleibman I don't know if you remember but back in the day when Japan was this Eastern economical miracle, the West wanted to copy everything they did. One thing was these 15 min stand up meetings where people would actually be standing up. Now that I think about it, I guess the real lesson was that it forced meetings to be short with as few people as possible. Unsurprisingly we learned the wrong lessons and now have 1 hour "stand ups" with 30 people.

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                                • David NjokuD David Njoku

                                  @maxleibman I don't know if you remember but back in the day when Japan was this Eastern economical miracle, the West wanted to copy everything they did. One thing was these 15 min stand up meetings where people would actually be standing up. Now that I think about it, I guess the real lesson was that it forced meetings to be short with as few people as possible. Unsurprisingly we learned the wrong lessons and now have 1 hour "stand ups" with 30 people.

                                  Max LeibmanM This user is from outside of this forum
                                  Max LeibmanM This user is from outside of this forum
                                  Max Leibman
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                                  @davidnjoku I don’t recall firsthand but I’m familiar with the history (and ALL TOO familiar with the one-hour daily “stand-up” phenomenon).

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                                  • David NjokuD David Njoku

                                    When organising meetings at work I try to keep the circle small, only inviting people who can actually contribute to the project.

                                    Too many people go the other way and, seemingly, want to invite half the organisation to their irrelevant little meeting. Why is that?

                                    AngelaA This user is from outside of this forum
                                    AngelaA This user is from outside of this forum
                                    Angela
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                                    @davidnjoku I think sometimes leaders want to invite folks who need to gain experience, so you end up with people who don't have the status or experience to contribute, but they get to learn how it's done. Other times i see the appropriate person invited as well as their leader, which tells me that their leader holds the reins tightly (maybe sometimes this is warranted, but usually it looks like micromanagement).

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