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  • AngelaA This user is from outside of this forum
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    Angela
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    I threw some things away today. Not normal "that's obviously trash" things, but things that had outlived their usefulness and were not fit to donate or sell.

    I am a person who has a hard time getting rid of things like that, because I keep thinking I might need something similar down the road, and maybe I could rehabilitate the thing. Or (because I am a crafter), I think maybe I could use pieces of it to make something new.

    I have a house full of this sort of stuff, and after years of accumulating things I "might need later," my storage areas are full. I don't have room for new hobbies. It's time to try to get rid of some stuff.

    I was considering the book about "death cleaning" for inspiration, but I've read several entertaining and inspirational books about how to declutter to no avail. They were great, but they did not work. I still have junk (and now additional books). So I think I'll just have to do it without that.

    Even though the books were not a magic bullet, I'm still interested in how other folks go about getting rid of stuff they don't need and don't use. "Comfort" stuff that you just feel better having, but which does not serve an actual purpose.

    I'm not talking about people like my sister, who holds a garage sale once or twice a year to shed things she no longer wants. I'm talking about people like me, who get attached to things or to the idea that if I needed something like "this particular thing" in the future, it might be hard to replace it.

    If you are such a person, or know someone who is, how have you/they successfully given up extra things?

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    • AngelaA Angela

      I threw some things away today. Not normal "that's obviously trash" things, but things that had outlived their usefulness and were not fit to donate or sell.

      I am a person who has a hard time getting rid of things like that, because I keep thinking I might need something similar down the road, and maybe I could rehabilitate the thing. Or (because I am a crafter), I think maybe I could use pieces of it to make something new.

      I have a house full of this sort of stuff, and after years of accumulating things I "might need later," my storage areas are full. I don't have room for new hobbies. It's time to try to get rid of some stuff.

      I was considering the book about "death cleaning" for inspiration, but I've read several entertaining and inspirational books about how to declutter to no avail. They were great, but they did not work. I still have junk (and now additional books). So I think I'll just have to do it without that.

      Even though the books were not a magic bullet, I'm still interested in how other folks go about getting rid of stuff they don't need and don't use. "Comfort" stuff that you just feel better having, but which does not serve an actual purpose.

      I'm not talking about people like my sister, who holds a garage sale once or twice a year to shed things she no longer wants. I'm talking about people like me, who get attached to things or to the idea that if I needed something like "this particular thing" in the future, it might be hard to replace it.

      If you are such a person, or know someone who is, how have you/they successfully given up extra things?

      Sam LevineS This user is from outside of this forum
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      Sam Levine
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      @AngelaPreston I found it much easier to give things to people? Via buy nothing or even putting out a pile for people to look through on a street corner (and then taking anything not taken back inside). I'm happy something is being used and that outweighs the "oh no I might need it in the future" aspect for minor items. I had a couple of good sized shopping bags of old clothes (things that were too worn out to wear) and ran into a serious sewer at a local event who was thrilled to take them off my hands to scavenge for scrap fabric for when she repairs stuff. Particularly since I had jeans and things in there where they couldn't be worn as-is any more, but there was plenty of usable fabric left.

      It helps that I have a steady job now where I can say "I can probably afford to replace that cheap frying pan I never use if it turns out I need that size next year". Also since odds are I will never need that size...

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        @AngelaPreston I found it much easier to give things to people? Via buy nothing or even putting out a pile for people to look through on a street corner (and then taking anything not taken back inside). I'm happy something is being used and that outweighs the "oh no I might need it in the future" aspect for minor items. I had a couple of good sized shopping bags of old clothes (things that were too worn out to wear) and ran into a serious sewer at a local event who was thrilled to take them off my hands to scavenge for scrap fabric for when she repairs stuff. Particularly since I had jeans and things in there where they couldn't be worn as-is any more, but there was plenty of usable fabric left.

        It helps that I have a steady job now where I can say "I can probably afford to replace that cheap frying pan I never use if it turns out I need that size next year". Also since odds are I will never need that size...

        AngelaA This user is from outside of this forum
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        @SRLevine That is a really good idea. I will have to find the buy nothing group here. I think I had found them at some point but drama drove me away. It must have been over a year ago though, since I don't remember it clearly.

        Thanks, Sam.

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        • AngelaA Angela

          I threw some things away today. Not normal "that's obviously trash" things, but things that had outlived their usefulness and were not fit to donate or sell.

          I am a person who has a hard time getting rid of things like that, because I keep thinking I might need something similar down the road, and maybe I could rehabilitate the thing. Or (because I am a crafter), I think maybe I could use pieces of it to make something new.

          I have a house full of this sort of stuff, and after years of accumulating things I "might need later," my storage areas are full. I don't have room for new hobbies. It's time to try to get rid of some stuff.

          I was considering the book about "death cleaning" for inspiration, but I've read several entertaining and inspirational books about how to declutter to no avail. They were great, but they did not work. I still have junk (and now additional books). So I think I'll just have to do it without that.

          Even though the books were not a magic bullet, I'm still interested in how other folks go about getting rid of stuff they don't need and don't use. "Comfort" stuff that you just feel better having, but which does not serve an actual purpose.

          I'm not talking about people like my sister, who holds a garage sale once or twice a year to shed things she no longer wants. I'm talking about people like me, who get attached to things or to the idea that if I needed something like "this particular thing" in the future, it might be hard to replace it.

          If you are such a person, or know someone who is, how have you/they successfully given up extra things?

          Woozle HypertwinW This user is from outside of this forum
          Woozle HypertwinW This user is from outside of this forum
          Woozle Hypertwin
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          @AngelaPreston I'm in the process of a large experiment wherein if something gets kept without there being a proper place for it (where it can be seen/used as intended), it has to be thoroughly inventoried (at least a photo or scan, and a record of where it is) -- with the idea that at some point we will all go through the various boxes and larger items one at a time and decide what should be done with them.

          ...of course, this is a slightly different problem than yours, because a large part of our inability to get rid of things is that although I am the organizer, there is stuff that isn't my purview to decide -- and yet everyone is ADHD on this bus so it's very difficult to get people to go through stuff on a dependable basis. (This is at least part of the point of the inventory system: I can generate a list of what needs to be gone through, and present the items one at a time... eventually... ⌛💀)

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          • AngelaA Angela

            I threw some things away today. Not normal "that's obviously trash" things, but things that had outlived their usefulness and were not fit to donate or sell.

            I am a person who has a hard time getting rid of things like that, because I keep thinking I might need something similar down the road, and maybe I could rehabilitate the thing. Or (because I am a crafter), I think maybe I could use pieces of it to make something new.

            I have a house full of this sort of stuff, and after years of accumulating things I "might need later," my storage areas are full. I don't have room for new hobbies. It's time to try to get rid of some stuff.

            I was considering the book about "death cleaning" for inspiration, but I've read several entertaining and inspirational books about how to declutter to no avail. They were great, but they did not work. I still have junk (and now additional books). So I think I'll just have to do it without that.

            Even though the books were not a magic bullet, I'm still interested in how other folks go about getting rid of stuff they don't need and don't use. "Comfort" stuff that you just feel better having, but which does not serve an actual purpose.

            I'm not talking about people like my sister, who holds a garage sale once or twice a year to shed things she no longer wants. I'm talking about people like me, who get attached to things or to the idea that if I needed something like "this particular thing" in the future, it might be hard to replace it.

            If you are such a person, or know someone who is, how have you/they successfully given up extra things?

            anubis2814A This user is from outside of this forum
            anubis2814A This user is from outside of this forum
            anubis2814
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            @AngelaPreston I think about all the extra work, clutter and stress of keeping the thing. I focus on the downsides of keeping the thing and it feels freeing to get rid of things
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            • anubis2814A anubis2814
              @AngelaPreston I think about all the extra work, clutter and stress of keeping the thing. I focus on the downsides of keeping the thing and it feels freeing to get rid of things
              AngelaA This user is from outside of this forum
              AngelaA This user is from outside of this forum
              Angela
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              @anubis2814 Oh that is good. I think that will help. Thank you!

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