some guy came up to me, said something like "my friend wanted to know if they could add you on discord", right as a group of girls started kinda running out the door, to which he said something like "nevermind I guess"

@ielenia@ck.catwithaclari.net without witnessing context it’s hard to say. If I had to guess …

They were attempting to ditch him for one reason or another. Get him entangled with someone, then slip out before he can extract himself. They were may have just been bad at it.

@NullNowhere@sakurajima.social @ielenia@ck.catwithaclari.net this was very likely.. Alot of people did this to me I am pretty used to it.

@katiekat@transfem.social @ielenia@ck.catwithaclari.net from when I worked in a bar; it’s not terribly uncommon. Women unfortunately have to find a lot of ways to escape. The most common I recall is sending the guy off for drinks, but there are many others.