@Elizafox@social.treehouse.systems there’s risk during volunteer work that you use charity to assert power over the people you are supposedly trying to help, thereby removing their agency. They're in that position, you’re smart enough to not be, and you “understand” the problem. Why shouldn’t you? /s

That really feels like what’s happening here. Referring to it as “suicide” to not be archived is especially galling. Some of us are happy to be forgotten, and concern ourselves only with people we touch in our moment. To imply that is self harm is insensitive to the term and arrogant.

Well, the vast majority of people in tech can’t seem to grasp consent.