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What is one book that positively shaped who you are as a person and how did it influence you?

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  • šŸ”„treasure firešŸ’ŽG šŸ”„treasure firešŸ’Ž

    @chestas I propose a toast šŸ„‚ to all the Alephs and the Bottlemen out there! to the Bennys and the Annabelles and the Kenjis!!

    and, of course, the Books! (which Books...? ALL the Books!!)
    @ShaulaEvans

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    @gemsmoke @ShaulaEvans

    Chin chin 🄃

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    • Shaula EvansS Shaula Evans

      @alicemcalicepants Wow! That's amazing, Alice.

      I find it inspiring and terrifying in equal measure to consider the random events that can go on to shape a life.

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      @ShaulaEvans thanks, and same – my main finding was that other factors were more instrumental than being an only child in itself! Eg. Family circumstances/parental attitudes, individual personality, class, where they lived, when they lived, gender...

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      • Frank BennettF Frank Bennett

        @bookstodon @ShaulaEvans There are several, but I'll offer up two:

        Jean Merrill, The Pushcart War (1964)

        Read in the sixth grade of elementary school. It taught me the positive power of subversion, and the importance of solidarity in the face of corruption.

        Donald Knuth, The TeXbook (1984)

        Read while working as an early-career legal academic. It unlocked in me a passion for, or obsession with, grasping programming logic and putting it to use.

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        @fgbjr How wonderful in both cases.

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        • Dr Alice ViolettA Dr Alice Violett

          @ShaulaEvans thanks, and same – my main finding was that other factors were more instrumental than being an only child in itself! Eg. Family circumstances/parental attitudes, individual personality, class, where they lived, when they lived, gender...

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          @alicemcalicepants Ooh, that's very interesting!

          I love research that investigates received wisdom!

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          • millennial falconF millennial falcon

            @urlyman @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon makes sense there are wonderful books on the wonderful journey of a wonderful man.

            literally Textbook Schofield! 🤌

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            @falcennial that’s so incredibly generous. (Blushing) I’m super-flawed as anyone who knows me personally can attest

            @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon

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            • Shaula EvansS Shaula Evans

              @alicemcalicepants Ooh, that's very interesting!

              I love research that investigates received wisdom!

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              @ShaulaEvans so many people I studied were like 'I was lonely because I was an only child' or even 'I don't remember being lonely, but I must have been because I was an only child' because they imbibed the stereotype, but looking closer, eg. living a long way from other kids, emotionally-distant parents, enjoying their own company were better explanations (plus, having siblings was no guarantee of companionship!).

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              • Shaula EvansS Shaula Evans

                @mouseless How did you first come across the book?

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                @ShaulaEvans

                Strangely, I think.

                Rune HjarnĆø Rasmussen (the historian & nordic animism guy) was very on my radar at the time- back then I was digging for meaning in fairly reconstructionist norse pagan circles, and that was a whole journey in itself that's beside the point. Anyway, he was on Tyson's podcast for an episode, and while I don't think I ever actually listened to it, it was enough for me to see what his deal was, and investigate my local library.

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                • Shaula EvansS Shaula Evans

                  What is one book that positively shaped who you are as a person and how did it influence you? At what point in your life did you read it?

                  Fiction, non-fiction, graphic novel, audiobook: however you define "book" for yourself is fine with me.

                  @bookstodon

                  #Bookstodon #Books #AskFedi

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                  @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon
                  Comet in Moominland by Tove Jansson. How to deal with the unthinkable while remaining true to yourself.
                  Be more Moominmamma.

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                  • Shaula EvansS Shaula Evans

                    What is one book that positively shaped who you are as a person and how did it influence you? At what point in your life did you read it?

                    Fiction, non-fiction, graphic novel, audiobook: however you define "book" for yourself is fine with me.

                    @bookstodon

                    #Bookstodon #Books #AskFedi

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                    @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon

                    As a child: King's From A Buick 8. There was a scene where a man is walking around in the rain, with his long black coat billowing out behind him. To a young teen living a very constrained, small-town English life it evoked an sense of unknown freedom that I wanted to chase.

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                    • Debi GlioriB Debi Gliori

                      @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon
                      Comet in Moominland by Tove Jansson. How to deal with the unthinkable while remaining true to yourself.
                      Be more Moominmamma.

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                      @bearnecessities I know of the Moomin books but didn't grow up around them. Clearly I need to read them!

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                      • AliideA Aliide

                        @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon

                        As a child: King's From A Buick 8. There was a scene where a man is walking around in the rain, with his long black coat billowing out behind him. To a young teen living a very constrained, small-town English life it evoked an sense of unknown freedom that I wanted to chase.

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                        @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon

                        As a young adult: Anna Politkovskaya — A Small Corner of Hell. I was still finding my feet in Russia and while I understood how repressive it was, my vague idea of of Chechnya was largely through Russia's lens. This flipped my understanding, and while horrifying in many ways, also provided hope that bravery and pursuit of truth in the face of that was possible there.

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                        • AliideA Aliide

                          @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon

                          As a child: King's From A Buick 8. There was a scene where a man is walking around in the rain, with his long black coat billowing out behind him. To a young teen living a very constrained, small-town English life it evoked an sense of unknown freedom that I wanted to chase.

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                          @aliide Oh! I love that your teen self had this.

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                          • Shaula EvansS Shaula Evans

                            What is one book that positively shaped who you are as a person and how did it influence you? At what point in your life did you read it?

                            Fiction, non-fiction, graphic novel, audiobook: however you define "book" for yourself is fine with me.

                            @bookstodon

                            #Bookstodon #Books #AskFedi

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                            @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon

                            I can think of three books that I think are a big part of who I am.

                            The Discworld books influenced my ethics and morals quite a bit, while being at the same time being funny and witty.

                            Kitchen Confidential by Anthony Bourdain was the book I read in college and instead of going to university I ended up working as a kitchen hand. I did eventually tire of the work hours and bad pay, but it was in a kitchen I learned what work ethic looks like.

                            And of course, The Hitchhikers guide to the Galaxy taught me to always know where my towels is.

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                            • AliideA Aliide

                              @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon

                              As a young adult: Anna Politkovskaya — A Small Corner of Hell. I was still finding my feet in Russia and while I understood how repressive it was, my vague idea of of Chechnya was largely through Russia's lens. This flipped my understanding, and while horrifying in many ways, also provided hope that bravery and pursuit of truth in the face of that was possible there.

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                              @aliide It's wonderful that you found this so young. It's such a gift to "reverse the lens" and learn there's more than one version of the the world.

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                              • Shaula EvansS Shaula Evans

                                What is one book that positively shaped who you are as a person and how did it influence you? At what point in your life did you read it?

                                Fiction, non-fiction, graphic novel, audiobook: however you define "book" for yourself is fine with me.

                                @bookstodon

                                #Bookstodon #Books #AskFedi

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                                @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon @afewbugs Pratchett’s Guards books. Sam Vimes taught me how to be a better man

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                                • stojgS stojg

                                  @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon

                                  I can think of three books that I think are a big part of who I am.

                                  The Discworld books influenced my ethics and morals quite a bit, while being at the same time being funny and witty.

                                  Kitchen Confidential by Anthony Bourdain was the book I read in college and instead of going to university I ended up working as a kitchen hand. I did eventually tire of the work hours and bad pay, but it was in a kitchen I learned what work ethic looks like.

                                  And of course, The Hitchhikers guide to the Galaxy taught me to always know where my towels is.

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                                  @stojg I always just assumed that you always knew where your towel was.

                                  I have a few friends with serious kitchen backgrounds and their work ethic is in each case ferocious.

                                  I find the Discworld books are a bit like The Far Side comics, in that I usually do very well with people who like either one (and I'm guessing there may be a fair bit of overlap in those two groups, too).

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                                  • Piers CawleyP Piers Cawley

                                    @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon @afewbugs Pratchett’s Guards books. Sam Vimes taught me how to be a better man

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                                    @pdcawley @afewbugs Sam Vimes teaches all of us to be a better man, regardless of gender.

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                                    • Shaula EvansS Shaula Evans

                                      @aliide It's wonderful that you found this so young. It's such a gift to "reverse the lens" and learn there's more than one version of the the world.

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                                      @ShaulaEvans especially when that region is still "part of Russia" after what Russia did to it. So coming in, having been too young to really have learned about Chechnya at the time, then realising the scale of Russian brutality there but also its ...banality? was hugely revelatory.

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                                      • Shaula EvansS Shaula Evans

                                        @pdcawley @afewbugs Sam Vimes teaches all of us to be a better man, regardless of gender.

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                                        @ShaulaEvans @afewbugs oh, indeed. But as a bloke, Sam’s non-toxic masculinity (and his constant drive to Be Better) was, and remains deeply resonant and inspirational.

                                        One can always be more Sam.

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                                        • Piers CawleyP Piers Cawley

                                          @ShaulaEvans @bookstodon @afewbugs Pratchett’s Guards books. Sam Vimes taught me how to be a better man

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                                          @ShaulaEvans @afewbugs I know you said ā€œbookā€ and I’ve already answered with a series, but my real answer is ā€œthe library.ā€

                                          I even wrote a bloody song about it. https://youtu.be/PsYB4tyTCEQ

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