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Women experience guilt, shame and exclusion in gaming culture, study finds

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  • L lath

    How can you call yourself competitive when you didn’t even clock 40+ hours a week? Competitive gaming isn’t just a hobby, it’s a way of life… Poser.

    //This comment was brought to you by Raid: Shadow Legends! Play now!!!//

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    canconda@lemmy.ca
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    #24

    lmao.

    40+??? That’s scrub level commitment. Get gud and you’ll be on the leaderboards playing 10+ a week. /s

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      underreacting@literature.cafe
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      It was the reason I started playing it.

      It’s one of the first things I bring up when recommending it to other women who aren’t playing online multiplayer games usually.

      Most women I know who play it don’t play any other multiplayer games online, at least none with VC.

      Games with VC usually do have the option to turn it off, but doing so you’ll have less information than players who use it. You’ll be a detriment to your team if they would otherwise have had efficient comms. You are turning off a feature, where the game is built on the expectations that it is turned on. I’d rather not have that option at all and instead have everyone be on the same page, with no expectations of comms with strangers. One less thing to consider, say no to, to disappoint others with.

      Nowadays I’d probably use VC if they had it, but I never would have started playing if they did, so I’m glad there are still games where it’s not even an option.

      So I’d say for a fair percentage that absolutely is the reason. That, and the horror icons.

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      • R rumschlumpel@feddit.org

        Interesting study. Explicitly about mobile gaming, not PC gaming, though …

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        slab_bulkhead@lemmy.world
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        #26

        just looking at it as a classification of genres, they (men & women) rightly feel shame and exclusion because mobile gaming is to gaming as connect4 is to table top gaming.

        -as decreed from the Assistant to the High Stellarch of the PC Master Race 69th Group, Section 420.

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          dudewitbow@lemmy.zip
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          #27

          i mean of course youre going to have a conclusion like that polling exclusively mobile game players. For example had they polled female MMO players (there are a lot), the results would likely be far different.

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          • 6 6nk06@sh.itjust.works

            https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Super_Mario_Bros.

            Oh wow, I didn’t knew that Super Mario or Tetris on the NES was an “incredibly exclusionary space” because that’s not how I remember it.

            I’m glad you taught me that.

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            petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            So, to participate in modern gaming, women should play games from 40 years ago?

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            • P petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone

              So, to participate in modern gaming, women should play games from 40 years ago?

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              rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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              Or just single player games in general. If Super Mario is fine (main “story” being that a princess gets abducted by a male villain and rescued by a man), there really aren’t that many games that are significantly worse.

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              • 6 6nk06@sh.itjust.works

                https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Super_Mario_Bros.

                Oh wow, I didn’t knew that Super Mario or Tetris on the NES was an “incredibly exclusionary space” because that’s not how I remember it.

                I’m glad you taught me that.

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                msmc101
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                oh yeah i’m sure your half rotten memory is a reliable source, thanks grandpappy

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                  slab_bulkhead@lemmy.world
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                  #31

                  Goood, I can feel your Gamer anger. Beneath the skin we are already one. Even now the evil seed of the Gamer germinates within you. strike me down and your journey to the dark side will be complete.

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                  • switcheroo@lemmy.worldS switcheroo@lemmy.world

                    I’ve been playing a certain well known game for over a decade now. I’ve developed such skill at never specifying anything that could out my gender I could put it on a resume.

                    It’s actually quite fun. Oh the stuff men talk about when they don’t know there’s a lass in their raid group lolol

                    Now that I’m “old”, it ain’t about guilt, shame, or exclusion, it’s about how fun this facade is. Y’all neeeever know. So keep talking.

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                    HubertManne
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                    My first thought was why would anyone know. Granted I pretty much assume no one in the game is female. I know some are but I think my assumption will apply a large majority of the time. I mean I know my wife was on the game.

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                    • R rumschlumpel@feddit.org

                      Or just single player games in general. If Super Mario is fine (main “story” being that a princess gets abducted by a male villain and rescued by a man), there really aren’t that many games that are significantly worse.

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                      petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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                      So, again, to participate in modern gaming, women should play only single-player games. Like, to avoid men?

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                        • 6 6nk06@sh.itjust.works

                          https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Super_Mario_Bros.

                          Oh wow, I didn’t knew that Super Mario or Tetris on the NES was an “incredibly exclusionary space” because that’s not how I remember it.

                          I’m glad you taught me that.

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                          twiglet@feddit.uk
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                          Being a girl trying to talk about video games with boys was generally horrible, it’s not just the multiplayer experience, the ‘you like games, then name every X ever!’ followed by bullying has been alive and well for over 30 years.

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                          • slab_bulkhead@lemmy.worldS slab_bulkhead@lemmy.world

                            Goood, I can feel your Gamer anger. Beneath the skin we are already one. Even now the evil seed of the Gamer germinates within you. strike me down and your journey to the dark side will be complete.

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                            canconda@lemmy.ca
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                            #36

                            lmfaoooooo

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                              jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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                              Many men are emotionally unable to accept things like this. I think the reasoning goes like

                              • i’m a good person
                              • i like my hobby
                              • someone is saying bad things about my hobby
                              • this makes me feel bad, so it must be false
                              • furthermore, the person bringing it up is attacking me

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                              Belief perseverance - Wikipedia

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                              Facts don’t matter. There’s really nothing you can do if you’re not someone they like.

                              I also think about this comic a lot: https://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots1151.html - Some people are too cowardly to grow.

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                                Many men are emotionally unable to accept things like this. I think the reasoning goes like

                                • i’m a good person
                                • i like my hobby
                                • someone is saying bad things about my hobby
                                • this makes me feel bad, so it must be false
                                • furthermore, the person bringing it up is attacking me

                                Link Preview Image
                                Belief perseverance - Wikipedia

                                favicon

                                (en.wikipedia.org)

                                Facts don’t matter. There’s really nothing you can do if you’re not someone they like.

                                I also think about this comic a lot: https://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots1151.html - Some people are too cowardly to grow.

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                                subarctic5128@lemmy.ca
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                                #38

                                I also think it may be just… sexism… I know people who behave like this towards women, but not other men…

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                                • U underreacting@literature.cafe

                                  It was the reason I started playing it.

                                  It’s one of the first things I bring up when recommending it to other women who aren’t playing online multiplayer games usually.

                                  Most women I know who play it don’t play any other multiplayer games online, at least none with VC.

                                  Games with VC usually do have the option to turn it off, but doing so you’ll have less information than players who use it. You’ll be a detriment to your team if they would otherwise have had efficient comms. You are turning off a feature, where the game is built on the expectations that it is turned on. I’d rather not have that option at all and instead have everyone be on the same page, with no expectations of comms with strangers. One less thing to consider, say no to, to disappoint others with.

                                  Nowadays I’d probably use VC if they had it, but I never would have started playing if they did, so I’m glad there are still games where it’s not even an option.

                                  So I’d say for a fair percentage that absolutely is the reason. That, and the horror icons.

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                                  warm
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                                  #39

                                  I see that and it certainly takes that initial worry out, but DBD isn’t that competitive, so there would be no pressure to talk really even if it did exist (different for each person I guess, how they feel about that). It’s a more chill game and the community in my experience is a lot more open-minded than your hyper-competitive games like CS where you find all the degenerates, I think that’s why its mostly more welcoming.

                                  Text-chat has been way more toxic in my experience anyway. Usually they stop talking on the mic and start typing.

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                                  • P petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone

                                    So, again, to participate in modern gaming, women should play only single-player games. Like, to avoid men?

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                                    rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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                                    Multiplayer with randos is to be avoided in general IMO.

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                                      How the fuck are they getting shamed and excluded in mobile games?

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                                      Captain Aggravated
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                                      Self-inflicted wound.

                                      She plays Candy Crush and feels that calling herself a “gamer” for it amounts to stolen valor.

                                      Maybe she’s right, maybe she isn’t. I’m a woodworker, and I’d built several bookshelves, tables, shop fixtures and cutting boards before I felt comfortable wearing the rank. I would insist I was an amateur or a beginner. It was my little porch table that is made with genuine mortise and tenons that I felt I’d earned it.

                                      And that’s without the gender politics of it. Here I’m a man doing traditionally masculine things. I’m not a man taking up knitting or a woman taking up gaming.

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                                        “Researchers surveyed 1,000 women of all ages across the UK who play mobile games.”

                                        Shows a picture of a woman holding what appears to be a PS4 controller.

                                        Poifect.

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                                          but_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world
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                                          Do they resize this is the case for al gamers? No matter the gender

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