To everyone with a hangup on pronouns — we have a gal/guy in our area who identifies as male or female depending on who the fuck knows what. He/she is a huge chick/dude, with serious attitude if you fuck up. You know what? All of my fire medics just straight ask her/him “hey there, are ____ or ____ today, and let’s get ya taken care of”, and they never have a fucking problem. Ditto for the ER peeps who aren’t just being assholes for the sake of assholery. Literally one sentence, and you’re good.