A dark and evil desire for a more compassionate world free from bigots and fascists. There I said it.

DNI in Spanish stands for Documento Nacional de Identidad so everytime i saw these I always have to take a double step, what are ya asking ID for?

It’s your responsibility to learn, not their responsibility to teach.

It’s not their responsibility to teach but it’s also not my responsibility to keep abreast of all social developments. It’s inappropriate to gatekeep due to someone’s naive ignorance.

Picture this. Sitting at a table game and someone drops a term or phrase that I don’t recognise. Am I going to run to the toilet and google that term? Or am I just gonna say 'yo, what’s that mean?"

Lol no. These people rarely have empathy for anyone but themselves.

I think it enforces itself by being off-putting to bigots. How many of them are playing it “incorrectly” to own the libs rather than just playing something they perceive as less hostile?

Guys no one ever says “don’t even ASK!”. It’s just that if you do ask, and the person does not have the energy or the capacity of explaining at that moment for any reason, don’t push and don’t get angry. Being oppressed is tiring, and having to explain yourself all the time is even more tiring. That’s all. If you are genuinely curious, you will find resources to learn and even people willing to teach. Just don’t expect EVERYONE to be that person.

Even though we usually talk about it in a derogatory way, virtue signaling is not inherently bad. A shirt that says “trans rights are human rights” is virtue signaling, but the performance is in itself beneficial to society, even if the wearer is only doing it to feel trendy and special.

What they accomplished with this is hostility to bigots who might otherwise have felt welcome.

none, because the title and cover art alone would put them off.

I would play this despite not respecting fat people

Playing devil’s advocate: Shouldn’t those who are not in a marginalized group be somewhat expected to have a modicum of understanding for those around them, though? No one should be expected to explain how, or why, they are who they are, and being pointedly asked about it generally puts a contentious focus on that aspect. Many, many people have put their energy and effort to explain all sorts of aspects about themselves, which are readily available at a moments notice. Why not rely on those instead of bringing up a potentially vulnerable topic and/or using a single aspect of one’s identity as a talking point?

Hmm, yeah.

This shit that you’re doing, right here? Nobody wants to deal with that.

Well yeah that’s what I meant. Learning is necessary, teaching is voluntary.

Well, everyone is about to start asking for an ID on the web, it seems, so you might be about right soon

What this is talking about would be if I were to now ask you questions about your marginalization and demanded answers. But since that is not relevant to our discussion here and because it’s not your job to ensure that I am informed on any issues relating to your marginalization I wouldn’t ask the questions in the first place. You shouldn’t have to feel like you have to justify your existence to anybody who possess by and is curious.

People sometimes treat visible members of marginalized groups like they are information dispensers. That just because they are viable they are responsible for entertaining their curiousity. In specific instances where it’s relevant and invited a discussion of their marginalization is fine. But it’s is not the job of someone to ensure any person interested is told about whatever they want to ask.

I demand that you educate me about your experience being falsely accused of rape. How did that happen? Was the accuser someone you knew well? Is it very common for someone to be falsely accused of rape? How long ago was it? How exactly does this affect your social life? Why didn’t the stigma go away after you were acquitted? I know someone who was falsely accused of rape and acquitted about seventeen years ago, and it fucked up his life at the time but it doesn’t really affect him anymore. Hey, his name is [x], do you know him?

I can’t relate to what you’re going through until I know the details. I demand that you educate me about your marginalization.

(EDIT: These kinds of ignorant, insensitive DEMANDS are extremely common. Demanding that someone educate you is not the same thing as offering to listen and politely asking if they would be comfortable with answering some questions so that you can learn and grow.

I’m truly sorry, my dad went through the same thing. He got arrested in front of us. We barely saw him for two years, he lost his job and his home and primary custody of us, and it took forever for him to get completely back on his feet. All for a spiteful lie. He pretty much had to start over in a new town. I have an idea of how painful it is, I just don’t know why you would think it’s okay to “demand” that someone educate you about their marginalization.)

Well said

Exactly. White collar, upwardly mobile women (usually white) trying to accrue social credit for themselves to preen for other similarly minded women with no real desire to make anything materially better for anyone else.

I don’t think they’re actually accomplishing any of those things. I’d argue a shirt is a demonstration IRL of support, which can raise awareness or normalize support for a cause (although not super effectively). Things like this make the “bigots” you are pwning just write this off as the usual DEI bullshit that nobody likes while also turning off anyone without your EXACT strain of identitarian politics, even if they don’t actually oppose any specific sentiment in the statement. It is literally counterproductive because it makes you (and your cause) look angry and mean and like the bully.