I just realised that for the first time in 3 days now there is silence at our home..
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@trebach Oof.. it does seems that way from the info i got so far
There seems more though, last month they where not here at all and the police came by several times
When im going to the door, she has to unlock 4 locks or something
Defenitly running or at least avoiding cops and child services
Child service even asked one of our other neighbours to give them a call when they would show up appearnly
@stux It's definitely not the same as my cousin because this guy is definitely more aggressive than my cousin. My cousin was good-natured but stupid.
There seems to be some domestic violence and child abuse doing on with this couple if CPS (Child Protective Services) is involved and wanted you to be their eyes and ears
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@Lomara Holy.. i also hope that ended well indeed
Does it me or does this kinda behaviour increase? It's so very troubling
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@stux It's definitely not the same as my cousin because this guy is definitely more aggressive than my cousin. My cousin was good-natured but stupid.
There seems to be some domestic violence and child abuse doing on with this couple if CPS (Child Protective Services) is involved and wanted you to be their eyes and ears
@trebach This one is a combination of stupid and aggressive and sometimes a LOT of alcohol so kinda a deadly mix
I've been so much more involved then i would wanted already, it was needed but truly sad
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@falcennial
He threatened me and im still waiting!But she's the issue also, the very next day he was there again
nothing learned
@stux if it threatened you then "stand your ground" and give it a couple of skull tunnels. you'll be doing it a kindness to end its suffering.
abused partner will have one less problem in her life. the problem that is most likely to kill her. there is another tremendous kindness.
not your problem of course, it is just perhaps an option. you are a person with agency. I hope you put all that shit in your rearview. you deserve a better community than that.
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@stux good question. It sure seems more prevalent to me. I think the pandemic lockdowns made it worse. I also think the rise in popularity of men like the Tates contributes to it.
@Lomara Was also thinking of that
The "manosphere" or whatever that is just incredibly toxic...
Well.. one thing left to do.
Shame it out of them, big time
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@stux if it threatened you then "stand your ground" and give it a couple of skull tunnels. you'll be doing it a kindness to end its suffering.
abused partner will have one less problem in her life. the problem that is most likely to kill her. there is another tremendous kindness.
not your problem of course, it is just perhaps an option. you are a person with agency. I hope you put all that shit in your rearview. you deserve a better community than that.
@falcennial Unfort it doesn't work like that here
Or fortunate i guess!
Self-defence is okay but to a certain level, weapons are a no no, always
If i where to shoot him, even in self-defence i would go away for a looong time, and rightfully so
(little side note! as a kid i almost had a black belt in taekwondo
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/end frustration mode
sorry
️(they don't speak a word english so no chance they''ll be reading this)
Sorry for all frustration btw!
️ I wanna be a calm happy person but sometimes surroundings can make it a little harderI'd rather type it out here instead of building the frustration and fueling this situation even more
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Sorry for all frustration btw!
️ I wanna be a calm happy person but sometimes surroundings can make it a little harderI'd rather type it out here instead of building the frustration and fueling this situation even more
@stux at the point the ownership bails on civilized society, the best course of action it to leave and not look back. A few years ago I realized that we either moved out or I was at risk of arrest because a “resident” didn’t care about anyone else, which made 2AM amplified karaoke singing totally OK.
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Sorry for all frustration btw!
️ I wanna be a calm happy person but sometimes surroundings can make it a little harderI'd rather type it out here instead of building the frustration and fueling this situation even more
@stux here’s hoping you find a new place soon!
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Sorry for all frustration btw!
️ I wanna be a calm happy person but sometimes surroundings can make it a little harderI'd rather type it out here instead of building the frustration and fueling this situation even more
@stux Wow. I'm sorry for you. But I'm horrified for the kids ! Here, in France, the child protection is a shame, but I thought it was better in the Netherlands.
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/end frustration mode
sorry
️(they don't speak a word english so no chance they''ll be reading this)
@stux
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