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  • SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
    SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
    Sara
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    #1

    seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

    folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

    it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

    Ro✨️R universeA Sam at BLAGB Greg JohnstonG RosyL 34 Replies Last reply
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    • SaraS Sara

      seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

      folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

      it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

      Ro✨️R This user is from outside of this forum
      Ro✨️R This user is from outside of this forum
      Ro✨️
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      #2

      @sarae I personally don’t fav because favs don’t autodelete as far as I can tell! But favs are great if you’re not worried about that!

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      • SaraS Sara

        seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

        folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

        it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

        universeA This user is from outside of this forum
        universeA This user is from outside of this forum
        universe
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        #3

        @sarae when i say something here and it's a funny/emotional/interesting thing to me, then a friend presses that button, it makes me go "hehehe! they saw that :D"

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        • SaraS Sara

          seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

          folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

          it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

          Sam at BLAGB This user is from outside of this forum
          Sam at BLAGB This user is from outside of this forum
          Sam at BLAG
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          #4

          @sarae Fringe benefit of starring posts that I discovered is that they then show up when you search using the 'in:library' qualifier.

          This is a nice way of not trying to bookmark everything that you might want to find again at a later date.

          I am still trying to boost or comment rather than favourite where I can, as I do think these forms of engagement are really important here.

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          • universeA universe

            @sarae when i say something here and it's a funny/emotional/interesting thing to me, then a friend presses that button, it makes me go "hehehe! they saw that :D"

            SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
            SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
            Sara
            wrote last edited by
            #5

            @awawawa yeah I often use it as a way to let people know I saw their reply in a conversation

            or as a "hey, right on"

            Deer Witch NyxM reticuleena
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            • Sam at BLAGB Sam at BLAG

              @sarae Fringe benefit of starring posts that I discovered is that they then show up when you search using the 'in:library' qualifier.

              This is a nice way of not trying to bookmark everything that you might want to find again at a later date.

              I am still trying to boost or comment rather than favourite where I can, as I do think these forms of engagement are really important here.

              SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
              SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
              Sara
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              #6

              @blag oh I'm a big fan of boosting, obvs

              but I also kind of have an idea about "these are the topics I'm sharing news about" and when things are way outside that, it's good to have another tool in the box

              I use boosting more like I use sharing articles the the family group texts

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              • SaraS Sara

                seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                Greg JohnstonG This user is from outside of this forum
                Greg JohnstonG This user is from outside of this forum
                Greg Johnston
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                @sarae I’ve not seen the nega-fav posts, what they got against favoriting?

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                • SaraS Sara

                  seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                  folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                  it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                  RosyL This user is from outside of this forum
                  RosyL This user is from outside of this forum
                  Rosy
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                  #8

                  @sarae oh no, not this nonsense again... I remember last time they were saying, "never fav or boost, only leave comments!" as if there aren't enough reply guys already!

                  actual discussion is good of course, but commenting for the sake of commenting... why?

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                  • SaraS Sara

                    @awawawa yeah I often use it as a way to let people know I saw their reply in a conversation

                    or as a "hey, right on"

                    Deer Witch NyxM This user is from outside of this forum
                    Deer Witch NyxM This user is from outside of this forum
                    Deer Witch Nyx
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                    #9

                    @sarae @awawawa yes! I sometimes read as +support +love +you’re seen

                    in disability communities I feel especially it never vibes “they LIKE that I’m having a brutal week,” it’s “they saw I’m having a brutal week & sent me a boop to know I’m not alone”

                    I think it’s v weird when I see discourse and ppl are adamant it only means “I like this”. Have your friends not been suffering & do you not boop support?

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                    • SaraS Sara

                      seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                      folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                      it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                      Pavid DrestonD This user is from outside of this forum
                      Pavid DrestonD This user is from outside of this forum
                      Pavid Dreston
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                      @sarae I generally have very low interaction stats on here though in general for digital socialising media but the little interactions I do have are quite warming to my cockles and perhaps help me to bring the hots to the niche masses. #mastodon #socialmedia #silentsunday

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                      • Ro✨️R Ro✨️

                        @sarae I personally don’t fav because favs don’t autodelete as far as I can tell! But favs are great if you’re not worried about that!

                        leguinian_utopiaL This user is from outside of this forum
                        leguinian_utopiaL This user is from outside of this forum
                        leguinian_utopia
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                        #11

                        @Recalcitrant I think that can be turned off, or at least I remember untoggling something lime that 😅

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                        • leguinian_utopiaL leguinian_utopia

                          @Recalcitrant I think that can be turned off, or at least I remember untoggling something lime that 😅

                          Ro✨️R This user is from outside of this forum
                          Ro✨️R This user is from outside of this forum
                          Ro✨️
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                          @leguinian_utopia hmmmmmm I’ll look into it

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                          • Deer Witch NyxM Deer Witch Nyx

                            @sarae @awawawa yes! I sometimes read as +support +love +you’re seen

                            in disability communities I feel especially it never vibes “they LIKE that I’m having a brutal week,” it’s “they saw I’m having a brutal week & sent me a boop to know I’m not alone”

                            I think it’s v weird when I see discourse and ppl are adamant it only means “I like this”. Have your friends not been suffering & do you not boop support?

                            Greg JohnstonG This user is from outside of this forum
                            Greg JohnstonG This user is from outside of this forum
                            Greg Johnston
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                            @moss @sarae @awawawa Agree. If someone posts that they’re having a hard time, often I might not fully understand why or how and worry about commenting delicately. So I favorite the post to be supportive, to acknowledge their discomfort .

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                            • SaraS Sara

                              seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                              folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                              it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                              ShnoofleBear /ʃnuːfɛlbɛːr/S This user is from outside of this forum
                              ShnoofleBear /ʃnuːfɛlbɛːr/S This user is from outside of this forum
                              ShnoofleBear /ʃnuːfɛlbɛːr/
                              wrote last edited by
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                              @sarae Sounds like the old "gaming the algorithm" mind set. Luckily, on Mastodon, things that are worth spreading, are spread, whether you fav it, or not.

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                              • SaraS Sara

                                seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                                folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                                it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                                Lee from ColoradoC This user is from outside of this forum
                                Lee from ColoradoC This user is from outside of this forum
                                Lee from Colorado
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                                #15

                                @sarae total agreement.

                                maximizing-reach culture is toxic. It's a very good thing to leave behind here in the fediverse.

                                Being kind and recognizing each other is good. And it's the kind of lovely action we should be encouraging...

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                                • RosyL Rosy

                                  @sarae oh no, not this nonsense again... I remember last time they were saying, "never fav or boost, only leave comments!" as if there aren't enough reply guys already!

                                  actual discussion is good of course, but commenting for the sake of commenting... why?

                                  SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
                                  SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
                                  Sara
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                                  #16

                                  @lalah that really confused me as well

                                  commenting doesn't increase post visibility in this system, and yeah...unless I have something to say I should keep my mouth shut

                                  hell a lot of the time when I have something to say I should DEFINITELY keep my mouth shut, lol

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                                  • SaraS Sara

                                    seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                                    folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                                    it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                                    schratzeS This user is from outside of this forum
                                    schratzeS This user is from outside of this forum
                                    schratze
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                                    #17

                                    @sarae literally who says this

                                    I've never seen anyone make this recommendation

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                                    • Greg JohnstonG Greg Johnston

                                      @sarae I’ve not seen the nega-fav posts, what they got against favoriting?

                                      SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
                                      SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
                                      Sara
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                                      @GPJohnston it doesn't feed an algo so that's a problem, I guess? idk it's a mindset that doesn't fit well with how I use the system

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                                      • Deer Witch NyxM Deer Witch Nyx

                                        @sarae @awawawa yes! I sometimes read as +support +love +you’re seen

                                        in disability communities I feel especially it never vibes “they LIKE that I’m having a brutal week,” it’s “they saw I’m having a brutal week & sent me a boop to know I’m not alone”

                                        I think it’s v weird when I see discourse and ppl are adamant it only means “I like this”. Have your friends not been suffering & do you not boop support?

                                        Lisa 🦔M This user is from outside of this forum
                                        Lisa 🦔M This user is from outside of this forum
                                        Lisa 🦔
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                                        @moss yeah, I definitely use it as a boop of friendly acknowledgement too. @sarae @awawawa

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                                        • Greg JohnstonG Greg Johnston

                                          @moss @sarae @awawawa Agree. If someone posts that they’re having a hard time, often I might not fully understand why or how and worry about commenting delicately. So I favorite the post to be supportive, to acknowledge their discomfort .

                                          SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
                                          SaraS This user is from outside of this forum
                                          Sara
                                          wrote last edited by
                                          #20

                                          @GPJohnston @moss @awawawa yep exactly this

                                          "hang in there buddy times are tough but I am on Team You and hoping for the best"

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