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  3. So, in my circles, the phrase "purity culture" refers to the harmful & abusive attitudes & behavior around sex & sexuality in religious communities (especially within evangelicalism).

So, in my circles, the phrase "purity culture" refers to the harmful & abusive attitudes & behavior around sex & sexuality in religious communities (especially within evangelicalism).

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  • ArtemisA Artemis

    So, in my circles, the phrase "purity culture" refers to the harmful & abusive attitudes & behavior around sex & sexuality in religious communities (especially within evangelicalism).

    I'm seeing discussion of Cory Doctorow's use of the term "purity culture" to mean something like people who are (supposedly) so obsessed with being perfectly ethical that they harass others and...I dunno...halt progress. I guess he's not the only one who uses it that way, but it's news to me.

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    @artemis In French, we use "puretΓ© militante" which would loosely translate as "militantist purity" ie the feeling of superiority derived from being a perfect militant/ally. It also covers the crippling effect on people trying to be perfect + the acts of violence exacted by people who feel superior through the supposed perfection of their belief/actions

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    • Mastodon MigrationM Mastodon Migration

      @artemis

      Good points. Have seen 'purity culture' also increasingly misused to describe leftists who refuse to vote for Democrats that they view as insufficiently true to leftist principles and policies.

      We need better terminology for both these things.

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      @mastodonmigration @artemis I've heard it used this way as well, here in the UK. The left of the Labour Party were constantly accused of it for not uniting with the right-wing entryists, whose calls for "unity" were of course completely bogus: it was *they* who were refusing to show any, while relentlessly dragging the party rightward.

      But anyway, I've seen three people on the fedi getting upset over Cory's co-option of the term, so won't be using it anymore except in its original context. πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ

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      • ArtemisA Artemis

        Please understand: we need the term "purity culture" in part because we need to be able to talk about the Christo-fascist takeover of our government.

        We need to be able to talk about & understand the way purity culture plays into power & oppression, its relationship to white supremacy, its influence on people's thinking, & how we can counter this shit & do something different.

        You may not think it's relevant to you, but it is, because Christian Nationalists have made this EVERYBODY'S PROBLEM.

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        @artemis as someone else raised in purity culture -- you've emphatically expressed my thoughts.

        As far as I can tell, the people using it are people who gawped at us from the outside. And given our current religious nationalist situation this is not a historical notion.

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        • Remi MercierR Remi Mercier

          @artemis In French, we use "puretΓ© militante" which would loosely translate as "militantist purity" ie the feeling of superiority derived from being a perfect militant/ally. It also covers the crippling effect on people trying to be perfect + the acts of violence exacted by people who feel superior through the supposed perfection of their belief/actions

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          @remi @artemis I read "purΓ©e militante" at first and was like, hell yea they know the score.

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          • Mrs.Malice ❀️‍πŸ”₯✨M Mrs.Malice ❀️‍πŸ”₯✨

            @artemis Thank you! He misused it, and now the Mastodon discourse is doing the same by mirroring his misuse without correcting it. Surely he was trying to invoke purity spirals & purity tests – which are completely different & separate from purity culture!

            See also:
            https://mastodon.world/@mrs_malice/116109416963649565

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            @mrs_malice @artemis I am not convinced he misused it entirely - the blog post is an odd collection of religious motifs:
            - creationism; β€œfruits of the poisoned tree”
            - evokes original sin vis a vis Shockley; "all the way down to the silicon chips in your device, which can never be fully disentangled from the odious, paranoid racist William Shockley"
            - baptismal motifs; "purging that wickedness by liberating the technology from its monstrous forebears"
            - obviously the purity culture reference

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            • Scott VE3QBZS Scott VE3QBZ

              @mrs_malice @artemis I am not convinced he misused it entirely - the blog post is an odd collection of religious motifs:
              - creationism; β€œfruits of the poisoned tree”
              - evokes original sin vis a vis Shockley; "all the way down to the silicon chips in your device, which can never be fully disentangled from the odious, paranoid racist William Shockley"
              - baptismal motifs; "purging that wickedness by liberating the technology from its monstrous forebears"
              - obviously the purity culture reference

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              @mrs_malice @artemis Which, to be clear, does not mean I think he was right to use it - I am sorry you have to hear it over and over now in a context where it doesn't belong to begin with. It's not appropriate.

              I just thought the entire thematic structure of the blog was overtly religious, and I'm surprised it isn't being discussed more from that angle. It's definitely odd.

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              • Kevin GranadeK Kevin Granade

                @remi @artemis I read "purΓ©e militante" at first and was like, hell yea they know the score.

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                @kevingranade @artemis hahaha, that's such a valid joke! I'm keeping it, and use it with a very serious face in serious conversations (I'll laugh very loud inside my head, though)

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                • ArtemisA Artemis

                  So, in my circles, the phrase "purity culture" refers to the harmful & abusive attitudes & behavior around sex & sexuality in religious communities (especially within evangelicalism).

                  I'm seeing discussion of Cory Doctorow's use of the term "purity culture" to mean something like people who are (supposedly) so obsessed with being perfectly ethical that they harass others and...I dunno...halt progress. I guess he's not the only one who uses it that way, but it's news to me.

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                  @artemis it's been used in Doctorow's way for years – not relating particularly to LLMs, but more to describe Tumblr's teenage neo-puritan movements of queer kids who reinvent the Hays code from scratch and don't realise they're perpetuating queerphobia, and even before that to describe Twitter's leftist infighting between people vying for the title of Most Leftist Person Without Flaws at the expense of each other and bullying each other out of movements and spaces for trivial perceived infractions.

                  Almost ten years back now that I heard it for the first time.

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                  • ArtemisA Artemis

                    Purity culture created a lot of the worst aspects of my religious trauma. MY WHOLE LIFE was purity culture. Everything I did, every interaction I had before my mid 20s was shaped by it.

                    Would it be so bad to just let us survivors of religious trauma use a combination of words which really didn't get used much at all for anything before we coined it & started using it? Nobody was using it for much, we started using it & now apparently it's a popular term for something almost completely separate.

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                    @artemis In French, we distinguish between religious purity (puretΓ© religieuse), and activism purity (puretΓ© militante).

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                    • Remi MercierR Remi Mercier

                      @artemis In French, we use "puretΓ© militante" which would loosely translate as "militantist purity" ie the feeling of superiority derived from being a perfect militant/ally. It also covers the crippling effect on people trying to be perfect + the acts of violence exacted by people who feel superior through the supposed perfection of their belief/actions

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                      @remi @artemis

                      Interesting. "Militant purity" is a good characterization of a type of uncompromising behavior and the attendant feelings of superiority.

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                      • Scott VE3QBZS Scott VE3QBZ

                        @mrs_malice @artemis Which, to be clear, does not mean I think he was right to use it - I am sorry you have to hear it over and over now in a context where it doesn't belong to begin with. It's not appropriate.

                        I just thought the entire thematic structure of the blog was overtly religious, and I'm surprised it isn't being discussed more from that angle. It's definitely odd.

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                        @scott @artemis I hear you, and I appreciate you pointing out the overall religious tone & motifs. And I still think he misused the term. It does seem he was in some morality-based frame of mind, which frankly makes his invocation of purity culture against me/us that much more insulting and out of place.

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                        • Mx Amber Alex (she/it)A Mx Amber Alex (she/it)

                          @artemis it's been used in Doctorow's way for years – not relating particularly to LLMs, but more to describe Tumblr's teenage neo-puritan movements of queer kids who reinvent the Hays code from scratch and don't realise they're perpetuating queerphobia, and even before that to describe Twitter's leftist infighting between people vying for the title of Most Leftist Person Without Flaws at the expense of each other and bullying each other out of movements and spaces for trivial perceived infractions.

                          Almost ten years back now that I heard it for the first time.

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                          @artemis and crucially, those are not entirely separable from the evangelical meaning. Because the same kids on Tumblr who will bully one of theirs off the internet for not disavowing a "problematic" show quickly enough or for saying something that can somehow, some way, be interpreted as insufficiently revolutionary, will also do so for shipping two fictional characters with a three year age-ap or for writing fan fiction that involves even vague allusions to kink.

                          The two are intertwined.

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                          • Mx Amber Alex (she/it)A Mx Amber Alex (she/it)

                            @artemis and crucially, those are not entirely separable from the evangelical meaning. Because the same kids on Tumblr who will bully one of theirs off the internet for not disavowing a "problematic" show quickly enough or for saying something that can somehow, some way, be interpreted as insufficiently revolutionary, will also do so for shipping two fictional characters with a three year age-ap or for writing fan fiction that involves even vague allusions to kink.

                            The two are intertwined.

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                            @artemis the "if you at any one point had dreadlocks or a Harry Potter tattoo or your girlfriend does the dishes you are an irredeemable fascist hellspawn" mob has reconstructed christofascist sexual morals from first principles and violently enforce them in the name of "progress".

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                            • Mrs.Malice ❀️‍πŸ”₯✨M Mrs.Malice ❀️‍πŸ”₯✨

                              @scott @artemis I hear you, and I appreciate you pointing out the overall religious tone & motifs. And I still think he misused the term. It does seem he was in some morality-based frame of mind, which frankly makes his invocation of purity culture against me/us that much more insulting and out of place.

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                              @mrs_malice @artemis Yes, he absolutely misused the term, and I understand why it is insulting to those exposed to that aspect of Christian mores.

                              I didn't notice till after I replied that you also picked up on the original sin phraseology, which I thought was also a clever attempt to disarm people's moral agency by claiming they were already tainted via the sin of Shockley, which is also supremely insulting - he does not have a claim to moral authority on that basis, much as he might like.

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                              • ArtemisA Artemis

                                So, in my circles, the phrase "purity culture" refers to the harmful & abusive attitudes & behavior around sex & sexuality in religious communities (especially within evangelicalism).

                                I'm seeing discussion of Cory Doctorow's use of the term "purity culture" to mean something like people who are (supposedly) so obsessed with being perfectly ethical that they harass others and...I dunno...halt progress. I guess he's not the only one who uses it that way, but it's news to me.

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                                @artemis
                                i also grew up with purity culture (Evangelical Christianity)

                                i think language is much more nuanced and fluid than is often admitted

                                that said, i think he's actually just using the wrong term. what he's referring to is called "purity politics"

                                i think he's also wrong about it fitting this situation, which is more about having clear political principles

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                                • Mx Amber Alex (she/it)A Mx Amber Alex (she/it)

                                  @artemis it's been used in Doctorow's way for years – not relating particularly to LLMs, but more to describe Tumblr's teenage neo-puritan movements of queer kids who reinvent the Hays code from scratch and don't realise they're perpetuating queerphobia, and even before that to describe Twitter's leftist infighting between people vying for the title of Most Leftist Person Without Flaws at the expense of each other and bullying each other out of movements and spaces for trivial perceived infractions.

                                  Almost ten years back now that I heard it for the first time.

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                                  @amberage @artemis I came in to say this too - as someone raised near the original evangelical version (Texas/ Southern Baptists and Pentecostals) but who has been on Tumblr over a decade. Doctorow adopted it FROM there, as best I can tell. Originally there did seem to be discussion of how the Hays Code reinvention culture was fundamentally failed exvangelicalism (taking the young person out out of the church enforcement environment but not the church enforcement mindset out of the young person), but as with anything else, even before LLMs, there is a tendency toward semantic weathering on any precise language, where people try to expand it to other contexts or adopt it casually without a full understanding of the meaning, and before long colloquial usage has come to reinforce the status quo rather than interrogate it.

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                                  • Scott VE3QBZS Scott VE3QBZ

                                    @mrs_malice @artemis Yes, he absolutely misused the term, and I understand why it is insulting to those exposed to that aspect of Christian mores.

                                    I didn't notice till after I replied that you also picked up on the original sin phraseology, which I thought was also a clever attempt to disarm people's moral agency by claiming they were already tainted via the sin of Shockley, which is also supremely insulting - he does not have a claim to moral authority on that basis, much as he might like.

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                                    @scott @artemis Yes indeed ❀️

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                                    • Mx Amber Alex (she/it)A Mx Amber Alex (she/it)

                                      @artemis it's been used in Doctorow's way for years – not relating particularly to LLMs, but more to describe Tumblr's teenage neo-puritan movements of queer kids who reinvent the Hays code from scratch and don't realise they're perpetuating queerphobia, and even before that to describe Twitter's leftist infighting between people vying for the title of Most Leftist Person Without Flaws at the expense of each other and bullying each other out of movements and spaces for trivial perceived infractions.

                                      Almost ten years back now that I heard it for the first time.

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                                      @amberage
                                      Gotcha...I wouldn't be able to say how long it has been used in the context I mentioned, but I have used it in the religious context since I suppose 2012 (before which I was happily in the midst of purity culture & therefore didn't hear from anyone who might have used it).

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                                        @amberage
                                        Gotcha...I wouldn't be able to say how long it has been used in the context I mentioned, but I have used it in the religious context since I suppose 2012 (before which I was happily in the midst of purity culture & therefore didn't hear from anyone who might have used it).

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                                        @amberage
                                        In part I take issue with Doctorow's usage because it is careless in generalβ€”he doesn't seem to mean *anything* specific by it, & then I see people saying that is a red flag phrase to them. I wasn't initially particularly upset seeing it used, but as the discourse picks up, it's frustrating to have language which I need to have to be able to openly discuss my religious trauma used in ways that will make it hard for people to hear me when I talk about it.

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                                        • ArtemisA Artemis

                                          @amberage
                                          In part I take issue with Doctorow's usage because it is careless in generalβ€”he doesn't seem to mean *anything* specific by it, & then I see people saying that is a red flag phrase to them. I wasn't initially particularly upset seeing it used, but as the discourse picks up, it's frustrating to have language which I need to have to be able to openly discuss my religious trauma used in ways that will make it hard for people to hear me when I talk about it.

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                                          @artemis oh yeah, Doctorow's talking BS. He uses it in the liberal usage of "anyone who has more rigid morals than me must clearly be a nutjob commie". In a way, he's taken the Tumblr/Twitter meaning of it without understanding it, confused having ideals and sticking with them for the competitive prog-posturing that phrase describes elsewhere, and thrown it at people who don't like him shilling ChatGPT, and that's it.

                                          I remember similar debates a couple years back about whether "NB" meaning "non-binary" could co-exist with "NB" meaning "non-black". Never found out how that hashed out though, quit Twitter around that time because of Musk.

                                          Carving out a space in language for ourselves and finding out someone else has, too… it's difficult working around that. I'm not sure I have a "right" answer.

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