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I think I am reaching a point where I struggle to co-exist with the broader hobby.

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  • Moreau VazhT Moreau Vazh

    @davej Yes, but they could say the same of me 'Go and join a writing workshop!' - I am just depressed that live-and-let-live is not in the vocabulary of people who have been relentlessly indulged by the entire hobby for decades now. @Printdevil

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    There is no money in live and let live. There is only monetizing social cachet and people seem to like watching fights. @Taskerland @davej

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    • Moreau VazhT Moreau Vazh

      @davej Yes, but they could say the same of me 'Go and join a writing workshop!' - I am just depressed that live-and-let-live is not in the vocabulary of people who have been relentlessly indulged by the entire hobby for decades now. @Printdevil

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      Also don't go join a writing group, they get grumpy if all your examples are about gargoyles from the 1970s

      @Taskerland @davej

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      • Moreau VazhT Moreau Vazh

        I think I am reaching a point where I struggle to co-exist with the broader hobby.

        It seems like everywhere I look, it's people who have been relentlessly pandered to by the gaming industry getting incredibly annoyed that other people even exist.

        Like, the other say some lunatic was screaming that there is no fiction in RPGs, there is only what is explicitly covered by the rules. And like... Fine... The industry has explicitly chased and encouraged such views but why so angry?

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        Moreau Vazh

        Like, the other say some lunatic was screaming that there is no fiction in RPGs, there is only what is explicitly covered by the rules. And like… Fine… The industry has explicitly chased and encouraged such views but why so angry?

        This is literally every discussion I’ve had in the PF2e community. It’s beyond maddening. And suggesting that you can use published rulesets as a baseline, a scaffold, or even just as examples of what you could do to support and empower the fiction at the table, rather than restrict or remove it, just gets you buried by passive-aggressive downvotes and comments treating you like you’re an idiot.

        The hobby expanded on the back of boardgame and video game players, and both of those communities often do not care about the fiction, just about optimizing the meta and winning. And that’s what we see here now.

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        • Moreau VazhT Moreau Vazh

          @davej Yes, but they could say the same of me 'Go and join a writing workshop!' - I am just depressed that live-and-let-live is not in the vocabulary of people who have been relentlessly indulged by the entire hobby for decades now. @Printdevil

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          @Taskerland @Printdevil And they’d still be wrong.

          The industry—as opposed to the hobby—runs on money, and the ragebaiters arguably drive commerce to the bigger players. Until, of course, they get too toxic (and often exposed as racists and/or sex predators, FWIW), and another replaces them: there’s always another would-be pundit ready to grift their way into the limelight.

          They drag you onto their own turf because it’s the only ground on which they can compete. You don’t HAVE to indulge them.

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            I think there's a lot of virtual country club politics going on there too. I've seen people really push for a style of gaming so they can control the agenda. What I have never understood is why. As I am wont to say RPGs are a teacup of a hobby, I have no idea what the desire is to aggressively police the narratives so much. You'd think people would be happy it still exists at all.

            @Taskerland @Colman @RogerBW

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            Charnock

            I think there’s a lot of virtual country club politics going on there too. I’ve seen people really push for a style of gaming so they can control the agenda. What I have never understood is why.

            I had someone reply to me on a YouTube comment once that made this click for me.

            They’re all playing on Start Playing Games, and they want to ensure they don’t have to think about anything, just run their RPGBOT-optimized build and flex on the other players.

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              Charnock

              I think there’s a lot of virtual country club politics going on there too. I’ve seen people really push for a style of gaming so they can control the agenda. What I have never understood is why.

              I had someone reply to me on a YouTube comment once that made this click for me.

              They’re all playing on Start Playing Games, and they want to ensure they don’t have to think about anything, just run their RPGBOT-optimized build and flex on the other players.

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              That's somewhat grimly just how some people are. They tend to be very loud too

              @kichae

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              • Dave JD Dave J

                @Taskerland @Printdevil And they’d still be wrong.

                The industry—as opposed to the hobby—runs on money, and the ragebaiters arguably drive commerce to the bigger players. Until, of course, they get too toxic (and often exposed as racists and/or sex predators, FWIW), and another replaces them: there’s always another would-be pundit ready to grift their way into the limelight.

                They drag you onto their own turf because it’s the only ground on which they can compete. You don’t HAVE to indulge them.

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                @Taskerland @Printdevil I guess I’m trying to say there’s nothing wrong with your gaming opinions, and we all have your back, else we would’ve devolved into name-calling and ad hominems by now. 😉

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                • Dave JD Dave J

                  @Taskerland @Printdevil And they’d still be wrong.

                  The industry—as opposed to the hobby—runs on money, and the ragebaiters arguably drive commerce to the bigger players. Until, of course, they get too toxic (and often exposed as racists and/or sex predators, FWIW), and another replaces them: there’s always another would-be pundit ready to grift their way into the limelight.

                  They drag you onto their own turf because it’s the only ground on which they can compete. You don’t HAVE to indulge them.

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                  RPGs are one of the hobbies with a tremendous silent majority, more groups probably exist than we'd ever know, playing happily for decades till the vagaries of time and ages, or just society makes them pop up for a look. Most of my old group never bought a game in their lives, that's what annoys corporate about RPGs. They can't harvest people who just game, and most groups aren't buying six players guides. They want us playing a different version of the hobby entirely

                  @davej @Taskerland

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                  • CharnockP Charnock

                    RPGs are one of the hobbies with a tremendous silent majority, more groups probably exist than we'd ever know, playing happily for decades till the vagaries of time and ages, or just society makes them pop up for a look. Most of my old group never bought a game in their lives, that's what annoys corporate about RPGs. They can't harvest people who just game, and most groups aren't buying six players guides. They want us playing a different version of the hobby entirely

                    @davej @Taskerland

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                    @Printdevil @davej @Taskerland
                    And the people who spend the most on products are the ones who play LOTS of different games. It’s best for the ecosystem as a whole for there to be dozens of solid reliable companies making myriad products… but thats not how business works

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                    • Dave JD Dave J

                      @Taskerland @Printdevil I guess I’m trying to say there’s nothing wrong with your gaming opinions, and we all have your back, else we would’ve devolved into name-calling and ad hominems by now. 😉

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                      @davej Thank you for the kind thoughts Dave 🙂 @Printdevil

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