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  • ChrisT Chris

    @jalefkowit Really?
    Wanna go back to fucking around with IRQs and config.sys?
    Installing Windows 3.1 from floppy disks?
    Removing and re-adding TCP/IP from your dialup adapter in Windows 95 every week?
    Screwing around with BBSs and BTX?
    Getting printer drivers delivered by snail mail?
    Bluescreens on a daily basis?
    Reading the 300 page manual for Word Perfect?
    All without Google?

    I think measured by the possibilities a modern system delivers it has become incredibly easy to use.

    jtbJ This user is from outside of this forum
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    @thechris @jalefkowit But in those old days most people didn't need to use a computer. Now everything involves a computer, everyone has to deal with the government websites.

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    • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

      I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

      Jade P.J This user is from outside of this forum
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      @jalefkowit as a non technically oriented, middle aged person, it is much harder to get computers to do what I want them to than it was 20 years ago. I haven't marinated in technology, but I've watched it develop from a distance since the 1980s. Now I have to mentally suit up for battle to get anything done online. Sure, I understand why people say it's easier now, but it's also burdened with stuff I don't want and can't easily escape. I'm looking into getting a non networked PC.

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      • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

        I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

        Clare HooleyC This user is from outside of this forum
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        @jalefkowit it’s an long read but https://www.wheresyoured.at/never-forgive-them/ brought home some of these points to me very well.

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        • ChrisT Chris

          @jalefkowit Really?
          Wanna go back to fucking around with IRQs and config.sys?
          Installing Windows 3.1 from floppy disks?
          Removing and re-adding TCP/IP from your dialup adapter in Windows 95 every week?
          Screwing around with BBSs and BTX?
          Getting printer drivers delivered by snail mail?
          Bluescreens on a daily basis?
          Reading the 300 page manual for Word Perfect?
          All without Google?

          I think measured by the possibilities a modern system delivers it has become incredibly easy to use.

          caoimhín o'cuilleainK This user is from outside of this forum
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          caoimhín o'cuilleain
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          #38

          @thechris you mean the days when you weren’t required to use a computer to do nearly anything?

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          • Kent Navalesi ☕️K Kent Navalesi ☕️

            @jalefkowit

            and FWIW it's questionable whether computers really were harder in the past.

            Annelies Kamran, Ph.D.A This user is from outside of this forum
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            @KentNavalesi @jalefkowit but you didn't have to use them for every damn thing

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            • Annelies Kamran, Ph.D.A Annelies Kamran, Ph.D.

              @KentNavalesi @jalefkowit but you didn't have to use them for every damn thing

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              #40

              @akamran @jalefkowit True.

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              • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

                billy joe bowers-8647B This user is from outside of this forum
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                @jalefkowit

                In the past the people behind the tech weren't purposely trying to fuck you.

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                • jtbJ jtb

                  @thechris @jalefkowit But in those old days most people didn't need to use a computer. Now everything involves a computer, everyone has to deal with the government websites.

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                  @jtb @jalefkowit If those websites are shit, that's not today's conputers' fault.
                  But he blocked me anyway because I dared to have a different opinion, so fuck this.

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                  • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                    I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

                    Andrew (Television Executive)A This user is from outside of this forum
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                    #43

                    @jalefkowit Even when we *have* spent our entire lives marinating in it, so much of modern computing is still impossible to navigate.

                    Youtube accounts have 4 separate "settings" sections, many of which have identically named settings, some of which control the same settings, some of which are entirely separate from one another.

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                    • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                      I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

                      Jef PoskanzerJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                      @jalefkowit Same but for watching television.

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                      • Andrew (Television Executive)A Andrew (Television Executive)

                        @jalefkowit Even when we *have* spent our entire lives marinating in it, so much of modern computing is still impossible to navigate.

                        Youtube accounts have 4 separate "settings" sections, many of which have identically named settings, some of which control the same settings, some of which are entirely separate from one another.

                        Jason LefkowitzJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                        #45

                        @ajroach42 It's hard for *me*, a professional nerd who gets paid to understand this stuff. I have no idea how normal people haven't come for us with pitchforks and torches yet

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                        • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                          I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

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                          @jalefkowit As someone who's proficient with tech, living together with my mother who very much isn't, I'd say that modern tech is failing both power users and inexperienced users.

                          It's all designed to fit the average skill level, instead of providing learning and explanation.

                          I fondly remember the old Windows Help system, which is part of how I got as tech skilled as I am now in the first place. Nowadays users are just expected to already know it, know how to google it or to just go fuck themselves.
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                          • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                            @KentNavalesi I spent too much of my life trying to configure sound cards on MS-DOS, so I wouldn't say the past was perfect either 😆

                            I just like to think we can always do better.

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                            @jalefkowit @KentNavalesi This is a question of great and genuine interest to me.

                            My Apple ][+ was definitely a hard brick wall to somebody who’d never used one. Also, any specific piece of software behaved in extremely limited, extremely consistent ways, so that once somebody had learned to use it, they could continue using it.

                            My first-gen iPhone was a miraculous device. I could hand it to somebody who’d never used a touch screen or a “smart“ phone of any kind, and they would — without exception! I tried this experiment multiple times! — be able to figure out how to use it just by experimentation and intuition. I really don’t think that’s true of iPhones now. But a current iPhone offers far more capabilities.

                            Were computers easier or harder in the past? Or just •differently• hard? How? Whose needs have we prioritized? Whose comfort?

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                            • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                              I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

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                              @jalefkowit I'm at the stage now where I'm starting to think that giving someone a 20 minute primer on Linux then letting them get on eith it has to be easier than constantly fighting with their firewall, antiviral, and shifty OS every week.
                              Personally, ive found several problems with Win11 recently that require opening Powershell as admin just to do something that used to take a couple of clicks with a mouse - something that the Windows evangelists always said was stopping people moving to Linux.
                              I'm now seriously considering a 2nd SSD for dual booting into something, possibly Mint.

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                              • DarrenD Darren

                                @jtonline @NatalyaD @jalefkowit TOO MANY ARE ALREADY AFFLICTED WITH WINDOWS

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                                @DJDarren @jtonline @jalefkowit

                                I worked with a neurodivergent student who DID literally throw their laptop out of the window. That was a tricky arrange-a-replacement cos the funding entity considered it deliberate damage and we had to really bash into them that it was disability related behaviour.

                                And a lot of work was done with laptop 2, "whatever happens, do NOT break this laptop, cos you won't get a third".

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                                • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                                  @ajroach42 It's hard for *me*, a professional nerd who gets paid to understand this stuff. I have no idea how normal people haven't come for us with pitchforks and torches yet

                                  Andrew (Television Executive)A This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  @jalefkowit I've been sharpening the pitchforks.

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                                  • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                                    I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

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                                    @jalefkowit It's gotten to the point where I often *can't* help non-techy people with computer problems anymore, because I haven't used either of the major proprietary OSes since the 00's - so, even as someone who has spent basically their whole life being the Computer Person in a lot of my social circles - the ecosystem most people are in is so divorced from anything I use that beyond basic stuff I can improvise through, I've lost the ability to really do community tech support.

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                                    • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                                      @ajroach42 It's hard for *me*, a professional nerd who gets paid to understand this stuff. I have no idea how normal people haven't come for us with pitchforks and torches yet

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                                      @jalefkowit @ajroach42

                                      For the same reason they haven't come for kayfabe panto politicians with pitchforks and torches. Ego-value is vested in a lifetime of this being something other people are competent at, at least are supposed to be competent at. (Cf. James Scott, Seeing Like a State.)

                                      The complexity and confusion is embraced as proof that, absent those brief inescapable interactions with the monolithic fetish object that is "computers", as broad hand-wavy category, it's largely someone else's problem.

                                      Heck, myself was writing poetic-satirical short stories in middle school, well before AOL was even mailing out free floppies, about how computer touchers we becoming a priestly class, the mystery of the machine serving the interests of both the touchers and those who called on them for exorcisms.

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                                      • jtonlineJ jtonline

                                        @NatalyaD @jalefkowit @DJDarren doh, v was a much easier description than upside down ^!

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                                        @jtonline

                                        I've had more recent opportunity to type it... And I knew what you meant, which is all that matters.

                                        @jalefkowit @DJDarren

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                                        • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                                          I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

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                                          @jalefkowit It is so true. I used to do support for a legendary in his field Professor Emeritus, who was slowly losing his critical faculties - Microsoft's constant changes to their software was what finally drove him to quit for good. Today I just about lost my shit trying to help a blind user navigate Windows 11 for the first time.

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