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  • Lee from ColoradoC Lee from Colorado

    @sarae @GPJohnston that is a generous read of the situation in your first sentence. I'll try to follow your example and share the assumption of good will ...

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    #33

    @colo_lee @GPJohnston lol I get up every day and try to remind myself about that

    and sometimes it really is that way but daaaamn also people are people an upsetting amount of the time ๐Ÿ˜†

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    • SaraS Sara

      seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

      folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

      it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

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      @sarae ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ‘

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      • kimaprK kimapr

        Sara

        itโ€™s true that it doesnโ€™t particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that weโ€™re all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

        the funny thing about this: on the Pleroma/Misskey side of the network, favorites distribute posts across servers the same way boosts or replies do, they just donโ€™t push the posts directly to followersโ€™ Home Timelines โ€” so they do increase distribution, but in a less obvious way (itโ€™s more obvious on smaller servers like mine where any interaction could facilitate federation that would otherwise would not happen).

        it doesnโ€™t really work that exact way on Mastodon though from what iโ€™ve seen, as Mastodon doesnโ€™t seem to federate favorites at all except to the post author.

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        #35

        @kimapr oh interesting!

        and I think that for those of us who read "trending" on a Mastodon server (which I do sometimes if I've been afk all day and want to catch up on the "big ideas") favorites do influence visibility, but yeah, it's in a diffuse rather than a direct way

        (and see I boosted this because it's new-to-me information, lol)

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        • SaraS Sara

          @Beldarak yeah, while I certainly recirculate some political stuff, on that esp I try to pace myself, because it can turn into such a barrage and I don't want to be like "here's a list of 47 horrible things I saw today" without chucking in some pictures of the cats or vegetables or a sunrise or whatever

          it's easy to get pulled into that and I definitely do sometimes

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          @sarae

          Yeah, the no algorithm thing means you can be super annoying to your followers if you boost too much in one shot, you're right ๐Ÿ™‚

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          • SaraS Sara

            seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

            folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

            it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

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            #37

            @sarae I see it as a way to tell the OP that I liked or otherwise appreciated the post, especially when I don't have a substantial reply to share!

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            • SaraS Sara

              seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

              folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

              it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

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              #38

              @sarae I agree on almost every point except one: it *does* affect distribution, albeit in a small way, because faves are counted for the trending posts lists.

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              • SaraS Sara

                seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

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                #39

                @sarae
                Thank you to all that was said before.
                same here.

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                • BeldarakB Beldarak

                  @sarae

                  Yeah, the no algorithm thing means you can be super annoying to your followers if you boost too much in one shot, you're right ๐Ÿ™‚

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                  #40

                  @Beldarak there are some people who I def like talking with but most of their feeds are stuff I find sometimes-really-upsetting and need to pace myself on

                  it's nothing personal and it's not like they're "doing it wrong" they're just doing it in a way that doesn't always work for me personally

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                  • Max LeibmanM Max Leibman

                    @sarae I agree on almost every point except one: it *does* affect distribution, albeit in a small way, because faves are counted for the trending posts lists.

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                    #41

                    @maxleibman yeah, we were having some conversation about that elsethread and I think you're entirely right

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                    • Sheru (she/her)M Sheru (she/her)

                      @mycrowgirl @moss @sarae @awawawa I use it the same. Sometimes I don't have the spoons to reply to someone having a difficult time. I want them to know they aren't alone.

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                      @MsHearthWitch @mycrowgirl @moss @sarae @awawawa The Like/Favourite buttons doesn't only mean "I like this post," no matter what some people claim. It can be:

                      - I see you
                      - Support
                      - I agree with what you wrote
                      - Etc

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                      • SaraS Sara

                        @maxleibman yeah, we were having some conversation about that elsethread and I think you're entirely right

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                        @sarae Appreciate you spreading the good word, either way.

                        As I once put it: saying โ€œfaves donโ€™t do anythingโ€ is like saying โ€œplease and thank you donโ€™t do anything.โ€

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                        • SaraS Sara

                          @maxleibman yeah, we were having some conversation about that elsethread and I think you're entirely right

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                          @sarae @maxleibman I am probably weird but I don't look at those

                          but you're still right because if other people do then they might boost because they saw it .. at which point someone weird like me sees it anyway

                          and probably boosts it ๐Ÿ˜…

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                          • SaraS Sara

                            seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                            folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                            it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

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                            @sarae get favourited friend lol

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                            • ๊“ค uษแ—ก :verified_hellion:D ๊“ค uษแ—ก :verified_hellion:

                              @sarae @maxleibman I am probably weird but I don't look at those

                              but you're still right because if other people do then they might boost because they saw it .. at which point someone weird like me sees it anyway

                              and probably boosts it ๐Ÿ˜…

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                              @dannotdaniel @sarae I am a narcissist because I only ever look at them to see if Iโ€™m in them. ๐Ÿคฃ

                              But more seriously, in many clients they are visible on the search screen, so I think they do have an impact even for people who arenโ€™t watching.

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                              • Max LeibmanM Max Leibman

                                @dannotdaniel @sarae I am a narcissist because I only ever look at them to see if Iโ€™m in them. ๐Ÿคฃ

                                But more seriously, in many clients they are visible on the search screen, so I think they do have an impact even for people who arenโ€™t watching.

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                                @maxleibman @dannotdaniel I totally use that "Trending' feed as a "quick catch up" on days when I've been doing other stuff and want to get a sense of what's been happening

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                                • SaraS Sara

                                  @blag oh I'm a big fan of boosting, obvs

                                  but I also kind of have an idea about "these are the topics I'm sharing news about" and when things are way outside that, it's good to have another tool in the box

                                  I use boosting more like I use sharing articles the the family group texts

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                                  @sarae PS. Should have put previous comment in context by saying that I tried for a few months to *only* boost and reply.

                                  This survey, and the replies, brought me back into the starring frame of mind:

                                  Sam at BLAG (@blag@typo.social)

                                  Should I start 'liking/starring' posts again? Context: I've tried to be more actively engaged here by forcing myself to only boost or reply but am now thinking about flexing my star button again. #AskFedi #Fediverse #Mastodon [ ] Yes [ ] No [ ] Other, hit reply

                                  favicon

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                                  • SaraS Sara

                                    seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                                    folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                                    it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

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                                    @sarae
                                    To me, Saying "don't favorite posts" is like "don't say 'thank you' in real life"

                                    Sure, life works without as well, but come on.. A little appreciation doesn't cost a dime.

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                                    • SaraS Sara

                                      seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                                      folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                                      it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

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                                      @sarae
                                      Thank you for this.
                                      It prompted me to update my pinned reminders to myself which still reflected the period when I had only recently learned what "Favorite" does here.

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                                      • SaraS Sara

                                        seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                                        folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                                        it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

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                                        @sarae I often lurk on the /explore section (or it's called "Trending" in the UI/app mostly) and I think it maybe is based on likes? Or is it only based on boosts? Also - I basically hit like on everything I read. To say "I saw that! Post more!"

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                                        • Yjeva :tinoflag:Y Yjeva :tinoflag:

                                          @sarae l have always thought it was like giving a friendly wave to someone on the street to let them know I have seen them even if I am not going to stop to chat right now.

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                                          Iโ€™m sure someone would tell us not to do that either!

                                          Weโ€™ll just wave at them and pass by

                                          @Yjeva @sarae

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