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I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer.

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  • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

    I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

    ChrisT This user is from outside of this forum
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    @jalefkowit Really?
    Wanna go back to fucking around with IRQs and config.sys?
    Installing Windows 3.1 from floppy disks?
    Removing and re-adding TCP/IP from your dialup adapter in Windows 95 every week?
    Screwing around with BBSs and BTX?
    Getting printer drivers delivered by snail mail?
    Bluescreens on a daily basis?
    Reading the 300 page manual for Word Perfect?
    All without Google?

    I think measured by the possibilities a modern system delivers it has become incredibly easy to use.

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    • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

      I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

      Jason LefkowitzJ This user is from outside of this forum
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      Someone posted a reply saying that computers were harder in the past so it's fine they're hard now, which earned them an instant block. Thanks for identifying yourself as the kind of person I want nothing to do with

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      • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

        Someone posted a reply saying that computers were harder in the past so it's fine they're hard now, which earned them an instant block. Thanks for identifying yourself as the kind of person I want nothing to do with

        jtonlineJ This user is from outside of this forum
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        @jalefkowit I'm sure computers were much easier in the past in many ways. I get exceedingly angry about all the dark patterns and BS my 12yo has to put up with these days.

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        • jtonlineJ jtonline

          @jalefkowit I'm sure computers were much easier in the past in many ways. I get exceedingly angry about all the dark patterns and BS my 12yo has to put up with these days.

          Jason LefkowitzJ This user is from outside of this forum
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          @jtonline They were bad in the old days, but it was more excusable then (IMO) because the whole field was so new. Everybody had to figure out from scratch what worked and what didn't. Plus computers were much slower and had less resources; there weren't CPU cycles available for things like nice interfaces.

          Today we know what works and we have the resources to do it. We just don't, because someone can make more money by making things hard

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          • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

            @jtonline They were bad in the old days, but it was more excusable then (IMO) because the whole field was so new. Everybody had to figure out from scratch what worked and what didn't. Plus computers were much slower and had less resources; there weren't CPU cycles available for things like nice interfaces.

            Today we know what works and we have the resources to do it. We just don't, because someone can make more money by making things hard

            jtonlineJ This user is from outside of this forum
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            @jalefkowit true, fiddling with little switches to get a mouse working was definitely bad! And it definitely seems like the incentives are all wrong these days. 😞

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            • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

              I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

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              @jalefkowit

              "Why do you have to restart your computer to fix so many problems? Most coders don't take their job very seriously."

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              • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                Someone posted a reply saying that computers were harder in the past so it's fine they're hard now, which earned them an instant block. Thanks for identifying yourself as the kind of person I want nothing to do with

                Kent Navalesi ☕️K This user is from outside of this forum
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                @jalefkowit

                and FWIW it's questionable whether computers really were harder in the past.

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                • Kent Navalesi ☕️K Kent Navalesi ☕️

                  @jalefkowit

                  and FWIW it's questionable whether computers really were harder in the past.

                  Jason LefkowitzJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                  @KentNavalesi I spent too much of my life trying to configure sound cards on MS-DOS, so I wouldn't say the past was perfect either 😆

                  I just like to think we can always do better.

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                  • jtonlineJ jtonline

                    @jalefkowit true, fiddling with little switches to get a mouse working was definitely bad! And it definitely seems like the incentives are all wrong these days. 😞

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                    @jtonline @jalefkowit My mother in law had to force-reboot her laptop the other day, but couldn't because she has arthritis and the stupid, artfully designed tiny little power button was too small and tough for her to push.

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                    • DarrenD Darren

                      @jtonline @jalefkowit My mother in law had to force-reboot her laptop the other day, but couldn't because she has arthritis and the stupid, artfully designed tiny little power button was too small and tough for her to push.

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                      @DJDarren @jtonline

                      🤬

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                      • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                        @DJDarren @jtonline

                        🤬

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                        @jalefkowit @DJDarren @jtonline

                        My mum did just fine with a BBC micro and specific keyboard commands for markup in word processing which my dad printed and stuck to the noticeboard for her. Mum learned the 5 or 6 most useful by heart. Same for Claris Works and Apple System 7.x.

                        The UI didn't change. The computer did not pop shit up at her. There was no spam (or Internet).

                        I was also home 90% of the time to fix or talk Mum thru stuff patiently cos Mr Computing Degree Dad got grumpy.

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                        • NatalyaDN NatalyaD

                          @jalefkowit @DJDarren @jtonline

                          My mum did just fine with a BBC micro and specific keyboard commands for markup in word processing which my dad printed and stuck to the noticeboard for her. Mum learned the 5 or 6 most useful by heart. Same for Claris Works and Apple System 7.x.

                          The UI didn't change. The computer did not pop shit up at her. There was no spam (or Internet).

                          I was also home 90% of the time to fix or talk Mum thru stuff patiently cos Mr Computing Degree Dad got grumpy.

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                          @jalefkowit

                          I leave home and Mum works as a teacher, using Windows.

                          Mum downloaded all kinds of malware marketed as "toolbars" "clipart for schools". Lots of meltdowns about popups/crap. Panic clicking the X button on ALL dialogs.

                          Appleware from 2015 onwards has been better, but it's still not easy, although she's calmer now (retired) and I have remote-access options.

                          Amazon tricks Mum into Prime subscriptions a lot. I've trained her to phone & middle class harass em

                          @DJDarren @jtonline

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                          • NatalyaDN NatalyaD

                            @jalefkowit @DJDarren @jtonline

                            My mum did just fine with a BBC micro and specific keyboard commands for markup in word processing which my dad printed and stuck to the noticeboard for her. Mum learned the 5 or 6 most useful by heart. Same for Claris Works and Apple System 7.x.

                            The UI didn't change. The computer did not pop shit up at her. There was no spam (or Internet).

                            I was also home 90% of the time to fix or talk Mum thru stuff patiently cos Mr Computing Degree Dad got grumpy.

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                            @NatalyaD @jalefkowit @DJDarren UIs randomly changing is a huge thing!

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                            • NatalyaDN NatalyaD

                              @jalefkowit

                              I leave home and Mum works as a teacher, using Windows.

                              Mum downloaded all kinds of malware marketed as "toolbars" "clipart for schools". Lots of meltdowns about popups/crap. Panic clicking the X button on ALL dialogs.

                              Appleware from 2015 onwards has been better, but it's still not easy, although she's calmer now (retired) and I have remote-access options.

                              Amazon tricks Mum into Prime subscriptions a lot. I've trained her to phone & middle class harass em

                              @DJDarren @jtonline

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                              @jalefkowit

                              As well as now being elderly, Mum is dyslexic and she's got a lifetime of suffering from male sexism, where men make her feel stupid for not being as good at a technical thing as she is.

                              There's sometimes where my partner and I (both female) can get Mum to do stuff or listen where no man can, cos she's not tensed-up for the expected sexism and sneering (or obvious THINKING sneering thoughts badly suppressed).

                              Glad your neighbour has you. It's not easy.

                              @DJDarren @jtonline

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                              • jtonlineJ jtonline

                                @NatalyaD @jalefkowit @DJDarren UIs randomly changing is a huge thing!

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                                @NatalyaD @jalefkowit @DJDarren and I'm getting more grumpy about stealth menus all over the place: vertical hamburgers, horizontal hamburgers, upside down ^s, etc. etc.

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                                • DarrenD Darren

                                  @jtonline @jalefkowit My mother in law had to force-reboot her laptop the other day, but couldn't because she has arthritis and the stupid, artfully designed tiny little power button was too small and tough for her to push.

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                                  @DJDarren @jalefkowit that's unhelpful 🤦

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                                  • jtonlineJ jtonline

                                    @NatalyaD @jalefkowit @DJDarren UIs randomly changing is a huge thing!

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                                    @jtonline

                                    IU changes drive ME up the wall and I'm computer literate. It's a nightmare for disabled ppl who I work with/for.

                                    I see folk presenting via online video thwarted by UI changes that mean their test run or last week's presenting UI doesn't work anymore. UI change wasn't announced, it just changed.

                                    Often OS/apps update on a 5-90 min timescale then force a reboot WHILE WE ARE BUSY or mid-presentation/meeting etc. Work ppl send apologies for this all the time.
                                    @jalefkowit @DJDarren

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                                    • jtonlineJ jtonline

                                      @NatalyaD @jalefkowit @DJDarren and I'm getting more grumpy about stealth menus all over the place: vertical hamburgers, horizontal hamburgers, upside down ^s, etc. etc.

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                                      @jtonline

                                      3 vertical dots. And the other 3 dots in a subtly different place. (Yes, MS Office, that is you!)

                                      And the cog.

                                      And the horizontal dots.

                                      Or the V click down triangle open or coloured in.

                                      And Win 11 whose different settingses don't even properly overlap (and breaking a load of features).

                                      I live in Linux at home. It's not perfect but it is 95% less bad and annoying. And has better fucking fonts.

                                      @jalefkowit @DJDarren

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                                      • Jason LefkowitzJ Jason Lefkowitz

                                        I occasionally help an elderly neighbor get stuff done with their computer. And every single time, I walk away in incandescent rage at how hard we have made this stuff for people who have not spent their entire waking lives marinating in it

                                        You Have My KeyboardD This user is from outside of this forum
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                                        @jalefkowit My 40s self appreciates my then-40s parents struggles with VCRs oh so much more.

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                                        • NatalyaDN NatalyaD

                                          @jtonline

                                          3 vertical dots. And the other 3 dots in a subtly different place. (Yes, MS Office, that is you!)

                                          And the cog.

                                          And the horizontal dots.

                                          Or the V click down triangle open or coloured in.

                                          And Win 11 whose different settingses don't even properly overlap (and breaking a load of features).

                                          I live in Linux at home. It's not perfect but it is 95% less bad and annoying. And has better fucking fonts.

                                          @jalefkowit @DJDarren

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                                          @NatalyaD @jalefkowit @DJDarren doh, v was a much easier description than upside down ^!

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