don’t pull up and talk about consent when you won’t even tell someone if you even believe in consent in the first place.

Of course I dont believe in consent. Its a mans world. We take what we want when we want it. That’s the way its supposed to be. /s

C’mon man, its not your first day on the internet nor mine. You know and I know exactly where that kind of personal question leads and Im not that dumb.

You got a whole paragraph talking about fucking your wife and now you’re shy? Why did you even bring it up in the first place then I don’t get it.

No I meant sex. Intercourse is sex. Blowjobs are sex.

no, a blowjob is not the same as intercourse. don’t even try to make it the same

This is Lemmy, not my doctor’s office.

Are you trying to say that a blowjob is NOT sex?

Exactly, so next time maybe don’t bring up how you like to fuck your wife out of the blue.

Okay… but like you get the whole thing where you can’t really have an informed opinion on something you didn’t watch, right? You don’t have to comment on things you don’t want to watch or read.

I’m happy for you and your wife! Super weird projecting though, where you equate promiscuity with cheating and short term relationships. I do enjoy short term sexual relationships on occasion, so I like to make sure I’m doing the things my partners want done. After all, you never know someone’s past or preferences.

No one ever said anything about getting consent to change positions and certainly not in a long term, committed relationship. They said consenting to a blowjob didn’t imply consent to other sexual acts. In fact, it’s in the criminal code. That’s probably why the prosecutor brought it up:

Sections 276 to 276.5 of the Criminal Code govern the admission of evidence regarding a sexual assault complainant’s other sexual activity. The Code makes it clear that evidence that a complainant has engaged in sexual activity is not admissible to suggest that the victim was more likely to have consented to the sexual activity which is the subject matter of the charge or that he/she is less worthy of belief.

I just gave this guy a blowjob and he stuck it in my ass after. I guess it’s all just sex, right? It’s all the same hole in the end.

listen, believe what you want to believe ya? When someone asks for consent, first learn what consent means and why it’s important.

let me ask you this, do you think, if someone consents to a blowjob, that means they also consent to penetration?

Maybe but like that there is no way to do anything like this anymore.

This may come as a shock to some people but many women enjoy sex, many women enjoy gangbangs, and a women making a consent nvidronfor a gangbang is something I’ve never heard of before and FFS, shouldn’t be necessary.

But she did anyway and the result on the Internet is: weeeeellll, I think she was forced anyways!

So now what? Do we need a notarized confession of consent before we can have sex?

I get the problem, but I also get that we remove any natural normal human interactions with this.

I brought up the cheating because it was part of the case. The woman in question was at a hotel bar, got tipsy, picked up the hockey player and despite being engaged, went up to his hotel room for some fun.

This is Lemmy and the topic was sex and consent and sexual propriety, which as a guy who’s been married twice, once the wrong way and once the right way, I happen to have some opinions on. Not a expert, just know the difference between a good sexual relationship and a bad one so my experience is applicable. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk.

And now you’re giving a Ted Talk on how to fuck your wife. What a weirdo.

Im not the one dragging out this conversation looking for more things to criticize you about. Buh bye.

Eww. Not likely.

Yeah that’s why we ask first.

God, I fucking hate the self censoring so much. There is just something so corpo-cucked about it.