@atomicpoet @aardvark He wrote that what he finds disturbing is your generalisation, not then phenomenon you describe. I agree with him.
Personally, I (a het woman) don't have the social skills to do any interactions with "uncanny precision", I'm more of a blundering straightforward type. And I find it mildly concerning that you are saying that if I accidentally make eye contact with a man, he might think I am signalling romantic and/or sexual interest!