Wandering Adventure Party

@peejmaybe respectfully, who is this performance supposed to be for? unequal gendered divisions of labor and especially emotional labor are not something old and distant. it's been the norm this whole time for a vast majority of people.

@drmambobob good point. it's nice to "help out a bit" but it's far better to take responsibility so nobody else has to mind it.

and hey, guys whose heart is in the right place but who struggle to live up to your ideals (hi, me too) -- you will earn a lot of brownie points with the women around you by simply fuckin' pitching in with cleaning work!

go ahead and leverage that selfish impulse to do better!

... just don't confuse that appreciation for romantic interest, right? be cool? ok. good.

been a while since i reposted this classic, but @afewbugs inspired me to dust it off today. truly fundamental imo.