@pteryx @Nerd @redoak @afewbugs When single I was always able to put _something_ on the table and as a newlywed I backslid some to more stereotypical “manly” cooking, but always did something. about 15 years ago I went “i can do this!” And learned to cook. It’s been so much fun So many of my wife’s friends have husbands who do NOTHING in the kitchen and and Im always “dude! Friday night is spaghetti night. You can f’ing manage spaghetti for the family.”