Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.

LΞX/NØVΛ 🇪🇺

@vkc had some best way not engage ignore block report.

if you engage, you already lost.

JustBob

@mloxton @RegGuy @vkc

I do a lot of coding for the MPAQ network. Sitting here working on other things and wondering if i could build a database/site to collect names@instances that someone sends...

Matthew Loxton

@bob
There is something like that afaik
Not sure if it wound up as an app, but women were circulating a blocklist of known gremlins

@RegGuy @vkc

Aurora 🐌

@vkc

I just can send you hugs, and apple pies.

criley :manjaro:

@vkc Real men understand what consent means. Real men don't treat women like garbage. Real men fight that shit.

Be a real man, not garbage who make women uncomfortable to be who they are.

#FightThatShit

Zark Muckerburg

@vkc for anyone openly harassing someone on the Fediverse please leave and never come back.

Sorry to hear what you are dealing with

europlus :autisminf:

@vkc I’m sorry the grubs are still around

Zark Muckerburg

@alex02 @vkc go to Twitter go to Bluesky. She’s not asking for argument.

Claudia

@vkc I’m sorry for what you went through. Hope you’re doing ok.

JustBob

@mloxton @RegGuy @vkc

Been searching but no luck finding a site that would let someone "report a bad user"...

JacobRPG

@vkc
Gods dang it, fedi. Be better.

Travis F W

@vkc okay, how to take responsibility for fedi culture. Hmm. Sure can look for it and push back, if I happen to see it at the right time, but that seems minimal.
I wonder if anyone has tried setting up a honeypot for sexual harassment?

The Wookie

@vkc

Sorry this happen to you. There are fighters out there but it's a tough fight and big Fediverse.

Fedi needs a hashtag that is a call to action to fight harassment and bigotry. Blocking or muting isn't enough. There should be a way to call in the Calvary to defend those being attacked.

Simply reply with #StompTheBully (or something) and the good guys show up to shut things down. Summon the guard dogs and we'll show up. As 6'5" father of a mess of daughters nothing makes me happier when my crew needs me for some "Big Dog Energy".

Orb 2069

@moondog548
This is the way.

@haltroy @vkc

Dcgirl

@vkc people want women on the fediverse? That’s news to me.

ChookMother 🇦🇺🦘

@vkc Yeah it's amazing how, when you talk about arsehole behaviour on social media, arseholes arrive to demonstrate exactly what you were talking about.

Bredroll

@vkc holy shit, why do assholes feel the need to come out of the swamp! so sorry you (and everyone else) have had to undure that kind of crap

a fresh pup of coffee :bowie:

@vkc using the negative comments that you have gotten to add some suspends on our instance. You are better to have here than all of them combined, easily.

Alex Psmith

@cobweb @vkc @eq Oh, they know. They support the shit, that's the problem.

The Cyberwitch

@cyberwitch @vkc that’s exactly what instance moderators do, all the time.

But if you self-host an instance (like Veronica does) that’s on you, you’re choosing to be your only moderator so you have to moderate. Moderating sucks, and that’s not exclusive to the fediverse at all. If you don’t want to deal with that, you can always go to an instance hosted by someone else who deals with this. There is literally nothing other people can do to defederate people from someone else’s instance (there are blocklists I think tho?).

Wandering Adventure Party

Deleted my post about the sexual harassment I'd received on Fedi, because it was driving more sexual harassment toward me.